"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I just met a girl about 2 months ago. All we've been doing so far is coffee, walks, & talks. I've been really tempted to try to hold her hand, so when we were walking just last nite, I grabbed her hand. She held onto it for 5 seconds & then let go. What does this mean? She gives me hugs, but that's all. I want to do more.
What shud I do?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Make the ho say no" is something I've read many times on this forum and I think it's right on. Women like a man who knows what he wants and isn't afraid to go for it. Be a man. It takes balls, but it's ALOT easier having a chick turn her head when you try to kiss her than it is beating yourself over the head not knowing what the outcome would've been. Don't be a perv, but don't be afraid to be let her know you're a sexual being and you find her attractive. But, you haven't put any moves on her in 2 months?? You, my friend, may very well be in the friend zone. Good luck!
 
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Cableguy said:
You, my friend, may very well be in the friend zone. Good luck!
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yep. you've waited too long. you ARE in the friends zone. next her. learn from this
 
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