"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I just met a girl about 2 months ago. All we've been doing so far is coffee, walks, & talks. I've been really tempted to try to hold her hand, so when we were walking just last nite, I grabbed her hand. She held onto it for 5 seconds & then let go. What does this mean? She gives me hugs, but that's all. I want to do more.
What shud I do?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"Make the ho say no" is something I've read many times on this forum and I think it's right on. Women like a man who knows what he wants and isn't afraid to go for it. Be a man. It takes balls, but it's ALOT easier having a chick turn her head when you try to kiss her than it is beating yourself over the head not knowing what the outcome would've been. Don't be a perv, but don't be afraid to be let her know you're a sexual being and you find her attractive. But, you haven't put any moves on her in 2 months?? You, my friend, may very well be in the friend zone. Good luck!
 
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Cableguy said:
You, my friend, may very well be in the friend zone. Good luck!
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yep. you've waited too long. you ARE in the friends zone. next her. learn from this
 
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