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Advice needed with girl I met in club

djinhell

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So, met some girl in the club last night, danced with her a bit, got her number. I know she was keen on me, cos a couple times when I was away from her she pulled me back to dance with her, and there was lots of kino. The thing is, she is not girlfriend material, because shes a bit of a slut...But if you read my previous post you would know im a 23yr old virgin. The girl is hot and basically I've decided I want to try and bang her but theres a couple of issues:-

1, I asked her what she was doing today, she said shes free, and I said I'd call her (I know this is AFC...but I want to call her today rather than wait, the reason being that im gonna be much busier from tomorrow onwards for a while) do you think its ok to call her today?

2, Im 23 and the girl just turned 18 (consent is 16 where I am). I dunno why, but I almost feel like im too old to be going for girls 5yrs younger than me...but thinking with my d!ck I wanna bang her and I guess at 18 shes old enough to know what she wants..?

3, If I do call her, do I arrange more of a date, or just a place to meet up? (bearing in mind I dont wanna date this girl, I just want some action)

I hope to hear from you guys.

Many Thanks

djinhell
 

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amoka

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Don't worry about when to call her. Call her and tell her to come over to play with your yoyo. One thing you must keep in mind is that when you have a girl over at your place, don't "expect" to have sex with her because if you do, you'd act and look desperate and you'd be greatly disappointed when you don't have sex. The fact that she is a slut does not guaranteed you sex with her.... particularly since this is going to be your first time doing so. Forget about having "date" with her. No "date" for girls met at the club... you already had the "date". Invite her over ( if you have your own place).
 

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djinhell said:
1, I asked her what she was doing today, she said shes free, and I said I'd call her (I know this is AFC...but I want to call her today rather than wait, the reason being that im gonna be much busier from tomorrow onwards for a while) do you think its ok to call her today?
No :cuss: ing way man ... no way. I'd probably wait 8-9 days. That's one strategy I know a lot of PUAs will disagree on, but I will generally wait that long then call and say "oh hey, sorry I forgot about you, but would you like to meet up"?

djinhell said:
2, Im 23 and the girl just turned 18 (consent is 16 where I am). I dunno why, but I almost feel like im too old to be going for girls 5yrs younger than me...but thinking with my d!ck I wanna bang her and I guess at 18 shes old enough to know what she wants..?
Dude, if there's grass on the wicket then let's play cricket!

In some African countries the age of consent is actually as low as 4, you'll be fine mate, 18 is 2 years above 16, she is an adult.

djinhell said:
3, If I do call her, do I arrange more of a date, or just a place to meet up? (bearing in mind I dont wanna date this girl, I just want some action)
That's a tough one man.

I'd probably throw her a curve-ball and maybe ask her somewhere where she can't tell if it's a date or what? Maybe ask her to do some volunteer work at a local soup kitchen? Or maybe some plane spotting at the local airport? Or possibly cleaning up graffiti? I dunno man, but think different bro, that's my motto.
 
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