"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Advice needed, want to keep her as a FWB

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I went out with a HB8 on 4 dates, it was going good, then she asked me to loan her $500 for car insurance etc... I told her I couldn't because I am remodeling my place.

I was going to blow her off completely, she's been texting me last few days, no contact yesterday, tonight she called, I didn't answer, she texted are we not talking?

I think I'm going to text her later tonight "I'm out with friends, how are you" or something like that.

any advice?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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why did you ignore her for? Just tell her you cant lend her 500 dollars, simple as. Then after you told her that, you shouldve just spoken normally. Youre not obliged to give her any money so it is cool if you just say no. Just pop up and tell her what youve been up to and keep it normal again.
 
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I ignored her because, until she asked for the money, I thought she might be really nice person, maybe even relationship material. Now this applies:

"I think it is a HUGE red flag that she would ask someone for a loan after 4 dates.

First of all, it is kinda classless, secondly, how do you know she isn't dating 4 other guys, asking them the same, and then paying NO one back?"

I ended up texting her last night and today. I'm just not feeling it anymore, so the FWB thing is my goal, she is pretty hot and I have a good time with her, I just don't trust her at all now.

Thanks for the advice
 
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