"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Advice needed: The Cougar Files

Plisken1268

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Hey guys, I'm new to the forum but have been reading the site for about a year and a half now. So after purchasing Rules of the Game, I ended up hooking up with a very sexy 39 year old at a local 80s night. So she knows where she stands, it's known that I am seeing other girls because a relationship doesn't appeal to me right now. She's really generous in how she treats me for the most part, and she's always more than willing to pick up the tab, and she'll do nice things (In addition to the hot, raunchy sex ;) ) for me. She's very low-maintenance for the most part, but divorced twice. When I last saw her, she was trying to convince me to fly to New York City with her for like 3 or 4 days. Just for like a fun trip... She said she'll pick up the plane ticket, and all of the expenses, and I wouldn't have to spend much money at all. Should I take her up on this offer? I wouldn't want to like lead her on into thinking it's more serious than it actually is, but at the same time I know that she already knows the situation pretty clearly. I'd really love some advice. Thanks, guys.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Stéphane

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Dude she's obviously using you for the sex too, go for it!
 

MacAvoy

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I agree with the other 2 posters, at 39 years age, she doesn't have false dreams of grandeur, she's been to the carnival and seen behind the curtains. Take her at her word, worse case scenario in 2 months, she's falling for you and you next her.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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