"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Advice needed...thanks

S

seek&destroy

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 16, 2005
Messages
191
Reaction score
2
So...I got this myspace chick's number and she told me to call her sometime. I'm trying to set up a date with her and she wants to meet sometime too, so I need suggestions as to what to do.

Thanks
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

O

onyx

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 18, 2004
Messages
360
Reaction score
1
Age
41
Location
UK
are you asking where you should take her? If so look in the bible theres a topic somewhere with just loads of date suggestions...I think full of action dates.
 
B

backbreaker

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 24, 2002
Messages
11,546
Reaction score
572
Location
monrovia, CA
get out in the real world and start sarging real women
 
D

Dannyrt34

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 26, 2006
Messages
684
Reaction score
20
Age
40
Location
Belle Vernon, PA
Lol yeah that is good advice backbreaker. I guess he can think of it as a 'practice date'.

Anyway. Do whatever you want for the first date. If she don't like it then oh well. I always prefer being original for the first date. Dinner and a movie, there's a great place near me where there is nothing but the nicest restaurants and bars, some shops, and a movie theater all in walking distance. Plus you can watch the boats come in and go, lots of activities.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top