"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Advice needed! Stuck in translation

Moose87

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Heres some background;
I went to highschool (year 11 and 12) with this girl, overtime we knew each other, I liked her and we became good friends.

Anyway, she started to go out with a mate of mine. They broke up 2 months ago and moved on since (the both of them) - I really don't keep in contact with this friend much more now I'm finished school...

Recently we've been chatting and going out together (social places, nothing really to heavy) but I'm afraid to make the move or how to do it and how to tell her, she probably knows that I like her. Alot of people seem to mistake us for a couple whos in love. I'm willing to have a dig, but I really don't know what I should do. I cannot stop thinking about this person, what should I do :confused: :(

Please help! :(

btw, i haven't done anything with this girl that a friend (of the opposite sex) hasn't done.
 

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DJ4Real

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Making a transition from "friend" to "boyfriend" requires that you become less available.....C&F will be necessary to help you exude confidence....you will need to read the bible....and you will need to learn how to balance your ****y and funny....when you become comfortable...attempt "kinoing"

Good Luck:cool:
 
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