"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Advice needed~Should I repeat school?

Skinnylove

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Hey guys,I'm rather new here.

Im recently in a dilemma coz am tossed with the choice of either highschool for 2 years...or go for a diploma for 2 years in college,the course of my dreams couldn't be grasped with the grades I got.
Why I chose to publish the thread here...

Well,I've been to the `Rationalmale` sites and realised I've been a stinking beta for my 4 years,and now I want a future where I'll get to develop my new self as an alpha...
Is it better in highschool(a different school btw..) or rather in college where everyone wants to get laid and true self dev is virtually needless so long as you got 'game'

It's really frustrating...is my wish to repeat school based on fear of the future...or just going back and building myself anew
What I really need is an environment for better progress with girls...and street game is rather unpredictable...
Guys..advice needed.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Rival

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College girls come with their own issues that high school girls don't. The grass isn't always greener. There is more male competition, the girls can be somewhat flakier than HS girls. Things like having a car, you're own place, access to alcohol all come more into play in college. That being said, there is tail to be had.

Truly I wouldn't base your choice off women but rather what you want. I might go back to high school and improve my GPA and reconsider options for college. High school life is gone for good once you graduate. You can always go to college, grad school etc.
 

Eph

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Really depends. Like Rival said you may want to look past the girls for a minute and decide which is better for the lifestyle you want in the future. On the other hand, you should also look at what you want to improve more. High School is more social circle game than anything, and if you're not at a party, the only way you're probably getting laid is through relationships.

College is a great big mix of styles. Social circle game can get you laid, but cold approaches are also much more acceptable. That said, again as Rivel said, having a car in college is a huge benefit. Your own place isn't very beneficial, since most people know either live with their parents or in dorms. Alcohol, eh, you can get by without it just fine.
 
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