"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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advice needed on GF please

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ok so basically could do with some advice pretty quick. Im pissed off and that is an understatement...

im on a night shift right now in England - My GF who has literally just moved in with me - i live in a room as part of a house share. She has been out tonight drinking with her friend she has little money, just lost her job and recently lost her ex bf to suicide.

So she is back at mine now and her mate is sleeping on my sofa, Im so angry its like she hasnt thought about my situation at all...I finish at 6am and have to go home to a hungover GF and her mate who will no doubt be up, banging about with total disreguard in the morning...am i over reacting??!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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her ex probably offed himself because of her.
not even kidding lol

and you fked up letting her move in now she has complete power over you.

I'd throw her out or leave soon as possible and dump her and prepare to be emotionaly scarred and devastated over her for a couple years which you probably won't have the emotional strength to get over.

not even being mean or rude this is the normal storie with a phycho woman.

her bringing her guy friends over to crash after drinking doesn't even surprise me one bit? wow I'm getting jaded
 
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straight up!!! Ive come here looking for answers i already know the answer to

im kinda at the end of my cord already - she adding the final pieces to the puzzle!

i knew i messed up by letting her move in, my own fault!

Felt sorry for her i guess, same reason why im still with her
 
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