"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Advice needed, date tonight

Willard

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I met a girl from POF on last Friday, we met at a bar she was out with her friends. I made out with her that night, on Sunday we went to the movies then dessert. She is pretty aggressively pursuing me, texting me "can't wait to see you again" she invited me to go on her friends boat when I get back from my month long vacation next week.

I ask her out for tonight she says maybe dinner and drinks after with live music. I find a Groupon for a Greek place I've been to. I ask her if she likes Greek and she says "Yes it's o.k. love sushi and steak, Lol. Doesn't matter, more about the company"

She appears to be well off, nice townhouse in Boca Raton, late model Mercedes.

I don't want to spend over $100.00 on her, either steak or sushi is going to be expensive unless I take her to the Outback or something similar.

I guess my options are take her to the Greek place, take her to the Outback, or blow her off. If I take her for sushi or steak, I'm going to resent the hell out of her if she orders something expensive. It's not not that I'm cheap, I just don't want to spend a lot on someone I barely know.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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