"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Advice needed, date tonight

Willard

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I met a girl from POF on last Friday, we met at a bar she was out with her friends. I made out with her that night, on Sunday we went to the movies then dessert. She is pretty aggressively pursuing me, texting me "can't wait to see you again" she invited me to go on her friends boat when I get back from my month long vacation next week.

I ask her out for tonight she says maybe dinner and drinks after with live music. I find a Groupon for a Greek place I've been to. I ask her if she likes Greek and she says "Yes it's o.k. love sushi and steak, Lol. Doesn't matter, more about the company"

She appears to be well off, nice townhouse in Boca Raton, late model Mercedes.

I don't want to spend over $100.00 on her, either steak or sushi is going to be expensive unless I take her to the Outback or something similar.

I guess my options are take her to the Greek place, take her to the Outback, or blow her off. If I take her for sushi or steak, I'm going to resent the hell out of her if she orders something expensive. It's not not that I'm cheap, I just don't want to spend a lot on someone I barely know.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

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