"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Advice much needed

PeoplesChamp

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Okay here's the deal. I haven't been posting much lately b/c I found a girl I was somewhat interested in establishing a LTR with or at least seeing where things lead. So I stopped DJing (right when I was just geting the hang of Cold Approaches). I've went on about 3 dates with this girl, she goes to LA for the weekend, has midterms all week (so we don't talk). Finally we talk on the phone tonight. Starts this crap about she not gonna celebrate christmas this year b/c her and some lame ass friends (never met em) are going to start "going back to church." Well by church she really means "meetings." Since this denomination happens to be none other than Jehovah's Witness.

I feel like a fat kid who just had his krispy Kreme snatched out his hand. First, I am strictly against organized religion of any kind let alone cult-like sects (Jehovah's Witness, Mormons, 7th Day adventists, Evangelicals, ect). Second, I am willing to be tolerant of her hobbies and I could accept her going (so long as she doesn't try to push it on me) but then I'm thinking about the sexual repercussions here. I haven't boned her yet but I did finger her a little, but of course we all know what religious fanatics preach about premarital sex don't we.


I have no idea how to proceed man. Is this just a test? WTF do I do from here?
 

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backbreaker

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It depends on how you feel about religion...

If you are christan, as I am assuming you are, and you don't think it's good for you to stray out of that... there are Millions of women out there for you.


Just because she isn't christan, doesn't mean she won't put out... lol

I am an atheist and my EX GF is a Cathloic... didn' thave too many problems with her until she tried to "convert" me every now and again...

95% of the time it was a huge non issue
 

Bible_Belt

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she not gonna celebrate christmas this year

JHs don't ever celebrate Christmas. This girl seems to have one foot in their circle. But obviously she is not especially devout all of the time.
 

SevenOne9

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lol, i have a friend who's a JW and another who's a Mormon (its suprising how similar those two religions are except JW's dress better when trying to convert people).

Technically, JW's aren't even supposed to hang out w/non -JW's.

They don't celebrate 'special days' like, independence day, sait patrick's day, etc. They aren't even allowed to donate plasma.

Last minute resistance... d@mn those things.

She's using sex as a weapon, and she doesn't wanna feel like a ho.

Let me ask you this:
If you're not getting what your getting -- why stick w/it?
 
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