"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Advice...is it too late?

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evolvingnerd

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here's the deal
my best friend has a sister who's good friends with my brother
now i dn't have any interest in her...but in my past super AFCness i pretty much ignored her completley...but now i wanna try to at least be civil and charmin and all that

how?!?!?
she and my bro are in same year in same highschool btw
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hollowpoint

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Wow, sounds like you have tons of conversational skills!



Go read the DJ Bible jacka$$.
 
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cactus3178

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You could say hello to her...
 
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