"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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illmatic1005

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Heres the deal..i have 2 girls who say they want me and whatever...

one of them i've known for about a year and we have been dating for about a month...(called girl A)

the other i just met about a month ago...(she will be called girl B))

they are both good looking girls with nice personalities..but they are each jealous of each other because they both want me...

Girl B knows im going out with girl A, but shes telling me not to and that shes a better woman and is so much more better in everyway...

Girl A is really worried i will leave her for girl B, which i dont wanna do...i just wanna keep girl B as a backup chick...

I keep telling girl A not to worry and that i wont leave her for another girl, which i wont do....Her mom keeps telling her otherwise tho..
This girl even emailed me saying "dearest ''illmatic'' im pretty pissedd about this ''girl B'' thingg. seriously, i want u to do wut u wanna, i dnt want u to think u gotta b stuck wit me if u want herr but i reallyy reallyy really like u more then anything.""

How can i convey to Girl A that i wont leave her for girl B(without being needy or desperate or sounding like i have one-itis)..i really want things to work out between me and girl A, but she is always scared i wont like her anymore for some reason...

Any Advice??
P.S. i am NOT going to cheating on any girl.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Well IF you really like girl A and don't want to loose her put it this way to her. "Girl A, I like you too and will not leave your for another girl. If you can't trust me and have faith in what I am saying. Then, maybe this won't work out if you keep being jealous of girl B and don't trust me." Something along that line. But, you want to keep girl B as a back up? How long exactly do u expect her to keep chasing you. If Girl B knows you arn't gonna leave Girl A, why would she stay around as ur back up? Maybe she would but, thats hard to say. If these two girls don't know each other you could play girl B for awhile. Tell girl B "Me and girl A are unsure of our relationship right now (But, you are.) I'd like to know you a little bit better before I decide if I still want girl A." This way you could fvck around with girl B for awhile then toss that ho' away like a hot potato and keep seeing girl A.... Do what you will!

EDIT: I noticed you said your not going to cheat... So, the bottom part of what I wrote won't concern you.
 

jimmyjack

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well no advice for this one and zero dollar bill for this one men cheat if its me am gonna boil the two of them.you have to chose hum i see brightnest in your future so you mean you wanna boil the two of them thats why but don't forget to get back to us.caller one time illmatic a 80 dollar bill from you after everything,you cool with that one hum hum
 
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