"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Advice? I think I know the answer for my ex gf

JJ07

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WHAT NOW!? Closure??

I saw her bet friend out she came up to me. We got talking. And basically told me that she has been seeing some guy she met out in a the night club, who lives quite far away. She said nothing's going to happen really. And she WASNT doing anything when we were together (which was 3 weeks ago). She also said that tbh she is over it, she just doesn't feel it's working so there's no point trying she thinks it's just time to end.

I'm now in a position where I'm so angry!! I want to text her this :

I ruined my Christmas cause of us two, and your already seeing a boy from ******* which you told me about on Xmas eve I just thought you was lying.(she told me she was joking) You were cheating on me whilst we were together. (I'm exaggerating this part)

I don't know why, I've got my closure. I know it's over, but I do again still want her back. But if feel she's got away with it to easy!!

If I want her to come back to me, then what's the best move?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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HyperAnalyze

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Go ghost, no contact.

Because you are an alpha male, am I correct?
 

JJ07

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How am I supposed to remain no contact when I have so many questions? And I'm so hurt and can't understand how it was possible for her to start texting someone she met on a night out a couples of days or a week after we broke up. Plus the fact is that even true!? Could of been when we were together, her friend was sure it wasn't. But still! She was telling me all that stuff and then goes and does that. I want her to know that I know ! So even if she isn't bothered, I know for a fact that she will atleast panic a bit
 

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JJ07 said:
How am I supposed to remain no contact when I have so many questions? And I'm so hurt and can't understand how it was possible for her to start texting someone she met on a night out a couples of days or a week after we broke up. Plus the fact is that even true!? Could of been when we were together, her friend was sure it wasn't. But still! She was telling me all that stuff and then goes and does that. I want her to know that I know ! So even if she isn't bothered, I know for a fact that she will atleast panic a bit
Those questions don't matter any more.
 
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