"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Advice: Gym Milf

thehunterwright

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I've just started reading the HJB

So been at my gym for a couple of years now and am on pretty good terms with most of the women who take the group fitness classes (BTW, amazing place to meet women), I may have waited to long to hookup with any of them though. There is one milf in particular from class, P, that has been very friendly with me. We have each others numbers, have been out for drinks before in groups, flirting.

Whatever, not important. What I want to know is, how do I turn some of them into FWB? Morality aside of course, I could offer these women some relief in what is a boring and routine life.

-Hunter
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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