"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Advice from Female "Maneaters"

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Re: Re: Re: Advice from Female "Maneaters"

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
  • Wait for that inviting look, or lingering stare. Then you'll know we're interested.

Very AFC. Although it's been written time and time again about waiting for an opening; a sign... What a load... Does it make any sense to wait for her to allow you to approach her? C'mon... :rolleyes:
Waiting may not necessarily mean stand there and look at her. Some times when I'm talking to a girl I'll get "The Look" as I've so dubbed it from a girl and I think these are one in the same. When you get "the look" you know with 100% assuredness that you've hooked one and now all you have to do is reel her in. It can happen in five seconds of meeting a girl or it can happen in five hours of hanging out with one for the first time.

This has happened to me on the dance floor more then anyother place. I'll be in some night club dancing it up and some girl will ask me to dance and as soon as I look down into her eyes "the look" hits me like a ton of bricks and the night usually ends up in her hotel room.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by bossdog
Alright i give up. This site is hopeless. I really thought i could help some of you. But you dont wanna be helped. You already think u know everything. No hard feelings. Peace
We needed help???!! :confused:
 

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Advice from Female "Maneaters"

Originally posted by PRMoon
Waiting may not necessarily mean stand there and look at her. Some times when I'm talking to a girl ...
Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa... You're talking to her, youdidn't wait....
 

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Another great example about howmuch advice you should take from a magazine :rolleyes:

The Biggest mistake you can make is to not offer a girl a drink.
lol! Sure, next thing these fvcking mags are going to start telling me to put a wellfare sign on my back! The only people who'm i buy drinks are the people who make interesting conversation and who'm i WANT to buy drinks. That's maybe 5% of everyone i meet...if that.

Never lie about what you do or say you're single if you're not.
Right, sure whatever ;-). I'll sell you the truth, but the price is high!

Be interested. Listen and ask questions about us. That's very sexy.
Wait for that inviting look, or lingering stare. Then you'll know we're interested.
Come and dance near us, but don't grope. If we dance with you, you're in!
Ah yes, why don't i just waste my energy on being an intreguing conversationalist, good dancer and mind reader while you are your old boring self who couldn't work up the nerve to expose yourself if your life depended on it... all under the pretence that you might take me back home for some lame ONS.

This article was more than likely written by a woman who believes that all men do, everything they work for, improve for , all the energy they put into growing into the best possible person they can be in every way, can be bought with what they got between their legs or how 'cute' they look. Well hey, good for you... come back when you have something REAL to bargain with.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Damn straight about the not lingering part. Like David D says, "Give them the gift of missing you". In fact, go and game other chicas in view of the ones you`ve already gamed. Nothing like fanning the flames of competition in your favour.

Agree about the "Can I come back to yours?" line. Transition things the way you want so that you "naturally" end up back at your or her place and then reward her with a shag, after she can`t stand it anymore and needs the relief from the sexual tension you`ve built up in her all that time.

Of course girls like the chase.

Agree about the confidence advice. Pretend that the girls are old friends and that you`re totally comfortable with them.

BS about the drinks. Get her to buy you drinks.

The not pinching the @ss thing is true only on a first introduction. After that, it`s fine.

For example, me and HB8 girl that I was seeing for about 2 weeks at the time were in a bookstore. I pinched her tush and she said out loud, "Perv!". Without missing a beat, I said out loud, "Where?!". The HB8 laughed and then proceeded to hug and kiss me.

So, the not ever pinching a girl`s heiny is BS.

BS about waiting for IOI, etc. Make the approach even if she hasn`t seen you yet. If you like her, go for it.

BS about asking them questions and getting to know them. That comes later after they`ve demonstrated to you that they`re worth getting to know. Ditto for telling them what you do and what your social status is. That`s none of their business at a first introduction.

Duh, don`t grope at first. Step in. Step out. Get closer, move back. Tease. Tease. Tease. The groping will come later after you`ve juiced her up.

Just my 2 cents.

Cheers,
Mav
 
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Oops...double post.
 

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Advice from Female "Maneaters"

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa... You're talking to her, youdidn't wait....

It's the context of "wait" which is the issue. When i'm talking to a girl i'm waiting for the look of interest.

But again that's just my interpretation. If anybody waits across a room for a girl for a look of interest looking for an opening then they're just asking to miss their shot or have their pocket picked.
 
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