Advice from a 55 year old man

[GirlCrazy]

One point that hasn't really come up here is that just because you get married you don't necesarily have 24/7 access to sex or not have to deal with women's games or manipulation anymore. I think that line of thinking is completely flawed.

Someone once told me a good story about that:

When you're dating, every time you have sex, put a quarter in a jar. Then once you're married, every time you have sex, take a quarter out of the jar. You'll never empty the jar.

So yes, getting married thinking you'll be getting the nookie every day is the wrong way to look at it. But then again, as you get older, sex isn't the main focus of your life like it is when you're younger. Sometimes you'd rather watch a dvd, or take a long soak in the spa. You know that the coochie isn't going anywhere, so passing up an opportunity for sex isn't a big deal.

 

[Tboner]

I got married, had one kid, divorced, all before age 27. That fulfilled my need for reproduction. I then became financially successful, then learned how to make myself happy by living my life like I want to. I'm 44 now and become happier everyday and less likely to get married.

What's the hurry. If a guy wants marriage to an old-fashioned woman and/or children, at any age, he can have them. Most women in this world live in cultures that don't promote the feminist crap.