I joined an online dating site and browsed multiple profiles that I liked. One of them actually noticed that I saw her account (the site tells you who views you), looked at me and sent me a flirt. Well, I noticed the flirt when she was online and decided to start an IM conversation with her. The conversation went really well and she seems cute, accomplished, funny, etc so I asked her on a date. Problem is that I was flying out for the weekend to meet family and interview for a job elsewhere. I set up a date with her for next Tuesday night. That's 6 days between when I talked with her and setup the date. I got her number and gave her mine and told her I would call her a night before the date to work out a time with her. Is that too long of a silent period or might that work to my advantage? I've already noticed that she's been back on the site daily since the conversation.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Advice for timing of online date
- Thread starter DJorBUST
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