hey guys, I haven't posted here for a while. I've learned a lot these past few years, thought I shared what happened with me since the last time I posted here, and what my current situation is, and of course....hear some feedback 
Back in 2013/2014 I dated a girl that was very manipulative, it took her a year to ask me for money, a thousand dollars to be exact, because she was my woman (she had already demoted to friend zone by then).
I learned my lesson, I took the blue pill and began seeing things for what they were. Next in line I dated a HB 9.5 42 year old 5'11 Brazilian/Italian chick, best ever. She said I was her f** boy. At the time I was having issues at work so my enthusiasm diminished for spinning, she kicked me to the curb right away, I lost my charm I guess. Believe it or not 2 years later she is still emailing me, asking me out.
I dated a few other girls, but never became attached once more, in fact most of them I drifted slowly away without a break up, so awesome. They're still cold texting me too, but I learned not to recycle p***sy.
Anyways, this year has been great so far. I had a couple of FNL starting with the holidays, then took a little break and in the past 14 days I met a 7 and an 8. The 7 is all over me, but last night (our 4th date) while alone she resisted all my escalations that I've had in my book. She said she wants to get to know me and viceversa better before we become intimate. She has that good girl attitude (she's a research scientist, I love hearing all her discoveries), but I still assume that she's put it out quickly in the past so I will probably give her until Tuesday to put out or drift away.
This other girl, I just met 9 days ago at a bachata concert. So that means we met on Feb. 26, a Friday, I asked her right there and then if she had anything going on that Sunday (2/28). She said no, and just to be clear, she said 'she was not seeing anyone'. wow. I really liked that. That Sunday we had a good time at a restaurant I like to go to on Sundays, so I enjoyed her company and so did she, she texted me afterwards as I expected. During the week we texted a good while, we learned we were both poets/writers, we shared our pseudonyms, and she sent me a bunch of her poems, etc. However, on our 2nd date, which happened this Friday 3/4, she was also enthus, we had a good dinner, but the band that was supposed to play did not show up. So we went elsewhere but she asked that we drove separately to that place. I took note.
Then once we arrived to this salsa disco, she got us beers, etc. We danced a few songs, talked, danced some more, but with the exception of the occasional eye contact and smiles, I was feeling her distant, even think I caught her looking at some guys. She also checked her phone twice and her watch once. Instead of letting things turn worse, we finished our beers (11:30pm) and I said we could go anytime. I walked her to her car, gave her a kiss on the cheek and that was it. I haven't texted her. Because she is a puertorican hottie, I mean almost perfect. I have not texted her nor have I received any texts either. Which is fine, because I like to detox from chicks like this.
The first girl I don't care much. But this last one, the puertorican, she was quite aloof on the 2nd date, although she did ask me a bunch of things about me, etc. (I learned we had quite similar backgrounds, we both went to the same church when kids, work in healthcare, and other similarities, etc. Not that it matters, I know. To be honest, I want to keep my frame with this last girl, she is not giving me the IOI's that I like to see before proceeding with a kiss close, etc. But then again, although it did hurt a little (you all know what I mean, asking myself what went wrong), I am over it, I am sure it was not all just me, too many variables, right?
Anyways, I thought I asked for some feedback. Heading out to sarge a little tonight.
Back in 2013/2014 I dated a girl that was very manipulative, it took her a year to ask me for money, a thousand dollars to be exact, because she was my woman (she had already demoted to friend zone by then).
I learned my lesson, I took the blue pill and began seeing things for what they were. Next in line I dated a HB 9.5 42 year old 5'11 Brazilian/Italian chick, best ever. She said I was her f** boy. At the time I was having issues at work so my enthusiasm diminished for spinning, she kicked me to the curb right away, I lost my charm I guess. Believe it or not 2 years later she is still emailing me, asking me out.
I dated a few other girls, but never became attached once more, in fact most of them I drifted slowly away without a break up, so awesome. They're still cold texting me too, but I learned not to recycle p***sy.
Anyways, this year has been great so far. I had a couple of FNL starting with the holidays, then took a little break and in the past 14 days I met a 7 and an 8. The 7 is all over me, but last night (our 4th date) while alone she resisted all my escalations that I've had in my book. She said she wants to get to know me and viceversa better before we become intimate. She has that good girl attitude (she's a research scientist, I love hearing all her discoveries), but I still assume that she's put it out quickly in the past so I will probably give her until Tuesday to put out or drift away.
This other girl, I just met 9 days ago at a bachata concert. So that means we met on Feb. 26, a Friday, I asked her right there and then if she had anything going on that Sunday (2/28). She said no, and just to be clear, she said 'she was not seeing anyone'. wow. I really liked that. That Sunday we had a good time at a restaurant I like to go to on Sundays, so I enjoyed her company and so did she, she texted me afterwards as I expected. During the week we texted a good while, we learned we were both poets/writers, we shared our pseudonyms, and she sent me a bunch of her poems, etc. However, on our 2nd date, which happened this Friday 3/4, she was also enthus, we had a good dinner, but the band that was supposed to play did not show up. So we went elsewhere but she asked that we drove separately to that place. I took note.
Then once we arrived to this salsa disco, she got us beers, etc. We danced a few songs, talked, danced some more, but with the exception of the occasional eye contact and smiles, I was feeling her distant, even think I caught her looking at some guys. She also checked her phone twice and her watch once. Instead of letting things turn worse, we finished our beers (11:30pm) and I said we could go anytime. I walked her to her car, gave her a kiss on the cheek and that was it. I haven't texted her. Because she is a puertorican hottie, I mean almost perfect. I have not texted her nor have I received any texts either. Which is fine, because I like to detox from chicks like this.
The first girl I don't care much. But this last one, the puertorican, she was quite aloof on the 2nd date, although she did ask me a bunch of things about me, etc. (I learned we had quite similar backgrounds, we both went to the same church when kids, work in healthcare, and other similarities, etc. Not that it matters, I know. To be honest, I want to keep my frame with this last girl, she is not giving me the IOI's that I like to see before proceeding with a kiss close, etc. But then again, although it did hurt a little (you all know what I mean, asking myself what went wrong), I am over it, I am sure it was not all just me, too many variables, right?
Anyways, I thought I asked for some feedback. Heading out to sarge a little tonight.
