"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Advice for improving fast?

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crossboss

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Yet I don't believe I have improved, to the extent I want. I try to learn from my mistakes, and try different routines. I have been approaching for a 2-3 months now, still haven't gotten laid.

For the longest time I just wasted time on the forum, wasting time asking questions and not doing anything. Finally, I got the guts to approach. Is there a balance between reading, approaching, and thinking?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Well first of all my dude, you got to stop caring about the outcome, which in your case, is getting laid. If you go in there thinking about outcome, girls are going to know you want something from them and the set probably isn't going to go well, just because of the state you're going to be in. I had the same problem with girls recently and what I'm going to try to do is just go into sets having fun with the girls. I mean, that's what everything should be about, fun. And lol don't worry 2-3 monthes isn't long at all, you still got a ways to go bro. I myself started hardcore approaching about 10 monthes ago and I just recently got my first number, so don't sweat it. But my advice for improving fast? Well there's really no way to improve overnight, but if you want to improve really fast, try just approaching tons of sets whenever you go out. Most guys wouldn't be able to do that, but just approaching tons of sets when you go out, should help you progress fast.

For routines and stuff, look up Mystery Method related stuff. But if you want to know WHY all the routines and stuff work and really want to get deep into why seduction works, look up RSD, which is what I do. Basically RSD is more about what you're sub communicating to the girl, rather than what you're actually saying.
 
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don't plan.
don't think.
don't care.

just get enough sleep the night before.
wake up happy.
eat a yummy breakfast, and do what you enjoy.

once you've set this up, you'll feel like there's nothing that can stop you, and it's true <--- including women.
 
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Screw the routines. Don't go out with the mindset of getting a woman. Go with the mindset that you're going to have fun. Girls know what you want. They will dance all night with one guy and not give another guy the time of day. That's because they know the guy's intent. What works for me is to just walk up with a fun attitude. I usually talk to the ugly chicks and ignore their good looking friend/s. Usually they get involved in the conversation and wonder why I'm not talking to them. Then I leave. I go back later and the good looking one is usually trying to strike up a conversation or dance all over me.
 
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tick37 said:
Screw the routines. Don't go out with the mindset of getting a woman. Go with the mindset that you're going to have fun. Girls know what you want. They will dance all night with one guy and not give another guy the time of day. That's because they know the guy's intent. What works for me is to just walk up with a fun attitude. I usually talk to the ugly chicks and ignore their good looking friend/s. Usually they get involved in the conversation and wonder why I'm not talking to them. Then I leave. I go back later and the good looking one is usually trying to strike up a conversation or dance all over me.
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This is great advice man. Having fun with the approaches is really what I think I majorly need to work on. I can go up there confidently and I can get girls interested, but there are few approaches where I could say I was TRULY having fun.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Approach 7 different women everyday for 6 months straight.
 
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I'm thinkin your problem is actually thinking too much. If you do something without thinking about it, you'll use your instincts, isntead of over-thinking the situation and ****in it up. One trick is to act like she has a bf, so you don't feel as much pressure when you're talkin to her. You'll be more comfortable, and by doing that you will appear a lot more confident.
 
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If you want to improve get off this forum and go out there and start sarging!

But to be honest these things don't happen fast. You can fasttrack it by getting a lot of experiance quickly though. Are you up for the challenge?
 
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tick37 said:
Screw the routines. Don't go out with the mindset of getting a woman. Go with the mindset that you're going to have fun. Girls know what you want. They will dance all night with one guy and not give another guy the time of day. That's because they know the guy's intent. What works for me is to just walk up with a fun attitude. I usually talk to the ugly chicks and ignore their good looking friend/s. Usually they get involved in the conversation and wonder why I'm not talking to them. Then I leave. I go back later and the good looking one is usually trying to strike up a conversation or dance all over me.
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Thanks for all of the above advice.

That is a good one, going for ugly girls, because if you are cool with them, than it will be easier to talk to the hot ones.
 
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