"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Advice for breakup

eastenders

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Hi,

Ive been with my gf for ten months, she has decided she is completely in love with me and I am "the one" and I know she is not "the one" for me, so have decided to break up with her. Any advice for how do it would be welcome as Ive never dumped someone who is so into me.

Thanks
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ducaro

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I know its hard for us to guys to let down women who are sensitive and genuine. If yer sure, you wanna call it off, do it the way women say it the best. She'll get the hint. Tell her.. i love you, but i am not 'in love' with you..

Also let her know that you are not seeing anybody else.. (if thats the case or not)
 
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