"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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2pac

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i just lost 2 fine azz girls because i lied to one and told her i didnt go out with the other one and they both have not talked to me since they found out

so the advice i give to everyone is to NOT ever lie to your girlfriend because she WILL eventually find out someday
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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brenbaus

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when you play more than one girl at one time, the easiest thing to do is to tell them, "I am seeing other people" most girls dont care if she does not see you as an exclusive couple (but some do) the thing about being a player, is that you either have to make sure that one girlfriend does not find out about the other one(s) that you have, or just be honest with them (I learned this from watching one of my boys try to have 5 gf's at one time, and he failed miserabley)
 

DonJuanMonk

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2pac, I find it admirable that you tell everyone "to not do this" but the thing is, you have to own up. And owning up and taking responsibility for actions that you have taken is about being a man.

If I'm super interested in a girl, I always tell her I'm single. If I'm sorta interested, I always tell her I'm dating around (even if I'm not.)
 
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