"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Advice: don't be a frustrated a$$hole, like me

DJVladdy

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DJVladdy said:
Again, I'm not going to drug myself (any further), and I'm not going to any psychotherapists, period. Besides I'm all out of amphetamines, til like a month from now. Which is a good thing, because I dont want to get too used to them and addicted.

I kind of hope Interceptor sees this, out of all people.
......And you did, so I'm glad :)

I think one of the most important things for a man is to be 100% honest with himself. Truthfully, I knew you were going to say something along those lines bro. I just did not have the balls to write it myself. About how, obviously I should have made a move MUCH earlier. How I DO feel " 'I' was not rejected, my MANHOOD was rejected" - she might as well have said: "go cut off your balls now, for all I care" and that hurt me, i admit. Deep inside I know I've been given most things/attributes that 99% of the earth population could only dream of. I know full well this girl, or the world, doesnt owe me $hit.

And 1 more thing, to answer your question: "what am i really entitled too?" As a healthy (knock on wood), educated, and highly testosteronized young male I know I am entitled to pus$y, and bl0wjobs, and I don't think its too much to ask for because id be giving these girls alot more in return - for them itd be a win-win situation. I'm not asking for a toilet made purely of platinum, or a billiion dollars in the bank, or world domination... Im just a normal guy,l maybe a bit crazier than most, but that's all. I only wanna do good in this life and to this world.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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