"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Bladerunner

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Somewhat related, the best line I've ever used to (kinda) get away with calling a girl fat went like this:

Her: I can eat anything I want and never gain any weight, it's amazing!
Blade: Heh, just wait, you're going to be skinny, skinny, and then BAMN, one day you're going to wake up and have to buy two plane tickets for yourself!
Her: *shocked and laughing her ass off*
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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AlexLefty

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Gahgahhehahhahg
Ok so of the two chicks that I've been talking about, (the one who's number I got on wensday will be A, and the other girl will be B, for simplicity) I'm nexting B, and here's why.

So like I said earlier, and I know you guys are probably going to get mad but, it's this other guy that's taking her away. So word around the school, (and I heard it from the guy) is that they've done the deed. Which of course, could be total bs, but the fact that I see them everywhere, and I mean everywhere together just reinforces it. Last week, I was also with some friends and we needed her for our project, so I called her. As I call her she's trying to play it cool but in the background I can hear her like moaning and saying his name & ****. It was on speaker phone too, and everyone started laughing, it was actually really funny haha. So anyways, enough of that ****. I'm done really worrying about it/her. Seems to me too much effort to get with her/pull her away from the other dude etc. Though, I am curious to see if she is a slut & see if she'll bite on anything. Anyways though, I'm just guna put up the ol' NEXT

So now on to girl A. It seemed to be going good at start, and I assume it still is, but I guess it's really just me getting anxious. So I called her up on Saturday (once again, no plan in mind except to ask her to the movies the next day) and it went pretty good. Except me, being the dumb fuk duche that I am, asked her to a movie on sunday, which i didn't even realize was easter (and she's also Mormon, so she couldn't chill anyways) so she couldn't do it. And then she was starting to like extend the conversation and talking about random sh!t like 'so what did you do yesterday?' etc. I was mostly just thinking 'shut the fuk up annoying btch' So yeah we just talked for a lil bit and she asked if I had a job and was talking about how if she goes on dates the person has to buy her stuff etc. And I responded by saying that if I buy her stuff I would expect something in return. So blah blah conversation kept going and somehow it ended up that I was agreeing to a plan where she would call me later this week to set something up (pretty stupid since it takes away the power from me etc.) So that ended up being the plan and then I ended the conversation by saying that I had to go.

But so yeah, guess I'm just a little anxious that she hasn't called yet. But as I write this post, I am realizing that it's only tuesday, so no need really for worries yet. Anyways, those are a couple of my stories. Anything to say guys?

thanks
 

AlexLefty

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Ok so the chick never called me back...
So what do I do when I see her in class again? Really though, I really think i might next her because i don't have time for this sh1t. I know her excuse is going to be that she forgot to save my number into her phone.

So what? Do I just brush it off and tell her we're hanging out next weekend? Tell her now she needs to make it up to me? What's the best thing?

thanks guys
 

sageproduct

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Wtf she said if she goes on dates the person has to buy her sh1t?? What a fwcking princess.
 

eaglez1177

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Sry I couldnt get back to you I was on vacation for spring break

AlexLefty said:
Ok so the chick never called me back...Lol I called this from a million miles away as soon as I read in the previous post " I was agreeing to a plan where she would call me later this week to set something up". Of course shes not gonna call lol. YOU have to be the fvcking man and YOU have to be the initiator. NEVER leave sh*t like this up to a girl, cuz even if they are interested, they may still not call.
So what do I do when I see her in class again? Really though, I really think i might next her because i don't have time for this sh1t. I know her excuse is going to be that she forgot to save my number into her phone.

So what? Do I just brush it off and tell her we're hanging out next weekend? Tell her now she needs to make it up to me? What's the best thing?Dont bring it up to her. Pretend like it never happened. And is this the first time the chick has flaked on you? I usually go by the two strike rule, so I'd probably give her a strike on this one. Id give it one more shot, and this time YOU be a man and YOU take on the initiative. YOU be in control.

thanks guys
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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