"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bladerunner

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Somewhat related, the best line I've ever used to (kinda) get away with calling a girl fat went like this:

Her: I can eat anything I want and never gain any weight, it's amazing!
Blade: Heh, just wait, you're going to be skinny, skinny, and then BAMN, one day you're going to wake up and have to buy two plane tickets for yourself!
Her: *shocked and laughing her ass off*
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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AlexLefty

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Gahgahhehahhahg
Ok so of the two chicks that I've been talking about, (the one who's number I got on wensday will be A, and the other girl will be B, for simplicity) I'm nexting B, and here's why.

So like I said earlier, and I know you guys are probably going to get mad but, it's this other guy that's taking her away. So word around the school, (and I heard it from the guy) is that they've done the deed. Which of course, could be total bs, but the fact that I see them everywhere, and I mean everywhere together just reinforces it. Last week, I was also with some friends and we needed her for our project, so I called her. As I call her she's trying to play it cool but in the background I can hear her like moaning and saying his name & ****. It was on speaker phone too, and everyone started laughing, it was actually really funny haha. So anyways, enough of that ****. I'm done really worrying about it/her. Seems to me too much effort to get with her/pull her away from the other dude etc. Though, I am curious to see if she is a slut & see if she'll bite on anything. Anyways though, I'm just guna put up the ol' NEXT

So now on to girl A. It seemed to be going good at start, and I assume it still is, but I guess it's really just me getting anxious. So I called her up on Saturday (once again, no plan in mind except to ask her to the movies the next day) and it went pretty good. Except me, being the dumb fuk duche that I am, asked her to a movie on sunday, which i didn't even realize was easter (and she's also Mormon, so she couldn't chill anyways) so she couldn't do it. And then she was starting to like extend the conversation and talking about random sh!t like 'so what did you do yesterday?' etc. I was mostly just thinking 'shut the fuk up annoying btch' So yeah we just talked for a lil bit and she asked if I had a job and was talking about how if she goes on dates the person has to buy her stuff etc. And I responded by saying that if I buy her stuff I would expect something in return. So blah blah conversation kept going and somehow it ended up that I was agreeing to a plan where she would call me later this week to set something up (pretty stupid since it takes away the power from me etc.) So that ended up being the plan and then I ended the conversation by saying that I had to go.

But so yeah, guess I'm just a little anxious that she hasn't called yet. But as I write this post, I am realizing that it's only tuesday, so no need really for worries yet. Anyways, those are a couple of my stories. Anything to say guys?

thanks
 

AlexLefty

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Ok so the chick never called me back...
So what do I do when I see her in class again? Really though, I really think i might next her because i don't have time for this sh1t. I know her excuse is going to be that she forgot to save my number into her phone.

So what? Do I just brush it off and tell her we're hanging out next weekend? Tell her now she needs to make it up to me? What's the best thing?

thanks guys
 

sageproduct

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Wtf she said if she goes on dates the person has to buy her sh1t?? What a fwcking princess.
 

eaglez1177

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Sry I couldnt get back to you I was on vacation for spring break

AlexLefty said:
Ok so the chick never called me back...Lol I called this from a million miles away as soon as I read in the previous post " I was agreeing to a plan where she would call me later this week to set something up". Of course shes not gonna call lol. YOU have to be the fvcking man and YOU have to be the initiator. NEVER leave sh*t like this up to a girl, cuz even if they are interested, they may still not call.
So what do I do when I see her in class again? Really though, I really think i might next her because i don't have time for this sh1t. I know her excuse is going to be that she forgot to save my number into her phone.

So what? Do I just brush it off and tell her we're hanging out next weekend? Tell her now she needs to make it up to me? What's the best thing?Dont bring it up to her. Pretend like it never happened. And is this the first time the chick has flaked on you? I usually go by the two strike rule, so I'd probably give her a strike on this one. Id give it one more shot, and this time YOU be a man and YOU take on the initiative. YOU be in control.

thanks guys
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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