"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Advice come back at, There are many other single girls

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Hypothetical scenario: Youre hitting on a chick with bf and a ring. God knows what shes up to. She tired suggesting she has a bf, she tried negging you, but havent LJBF yet. Suddenly she gets serious and suggests something to the extent of
"there are many single girls out there"

or something very similar where she is reffering to other girls, that are single.



Hmmm. What is a good come back to that? It dont have to be C+F, or anything special. Just something that goes through her and says no, I want you, or that your efferots to shoot me down have no effects.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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banGbro said:
Suddenly she gets serious and suggests something to the extent of
"there are many single girls out there"
say bye to the nice lady

if she said that in a serious tone of voice, you seriously cutting close to getting kicked in the nuts.


you can't befriend people by enoying them.
 

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playful way.. I know what you saying, Im trying something new here, fvcking around.
 

speed dawg

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You should probably take a hint.
 

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Hehe, that last one is the bomb. Thanks.

I dont converse if its not going well. ;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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