advice article: I Told My Boyfriend How Many People I’d Slept with…and He Didn’t Like the Answer

[MatureDJ]

I Told My Boyfriend How Many People I’d Slept with…and He Didn’t Like the Answer

“My boyfriend can’t get over how many people I’ve slept with. I shouldn’t have told him, but he pressed me for the info. He was 'nerdy’ for most of high school and college, and just started coming int...

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“My boyfriend can’t get over how many people I’ve slept with. I shouldn’t have told him, but he pressed me for the info. He was 'nerdy’ for most of high school and college, and just started coming into his own in his mid to late 20s. I have been dating consistently for years, and have had my fair share of hookups and relationships. And while I don’t think my number is crazy at all, he can’t deal with the discrepancy. We’ve been dating for two years and we’re serious. I don’t want to break up. How can I handle this?”

 

[Epic Days]

If you hit the link it takes you to the article. It outlines how a man is misogynistic if he thinks her number of c0cks defines her. LOL

Of course it defines her but its a push to get men to accept the reality that they (women) have numbers that are unacceptable.

Snap into line boys. You have to accept not only her fattened a$$ but you have to accept her carousel days and just love her because her actions don't define her. Her words are what matters.

 

[highSpeed]

If you hit the link it takes you to the article. It outlines how a man is misogynistic if he thinks her number of c0cks defines her. LOL

Of course it defines her but its a push to get men to accept the reality that they (women) have numbers that are unacceptable.

Snap into line boys. You have to accept not only her fattened a$$ but you have to accept her carousel days and just love her because her actions don't define her. Her words are what matters.

And this is why the west is dead, hypergamy on steroids. We removed all the responsibility that comes with pleasure for women. Yet, we heaped more responsibility onto the man and removed the pleasure. It's such a total and complete swing to one side, there is no way the west can continue like this. And that's why we are headed over the cliff, possibly never to return.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

‘Nerdy in high school and college’

Meaning while he was focused on getting good grades and having a good profession, she was just ****ing around? And now she just piggy-backs off of his hard ****ing work? How in the **** is that fair? God, these women suck.

 

[Tilex]

Think about all those ridiculous and outrageous categories you see on porn sites and realize that most women have already achieved 95% of them by the time they've reached their late 20's.

 

[zekko]

You know it's probably a bad article when it includes the phrase "toxic masculinity".
Does it matter any if all the guys she banged were SoSuave members?
Come to think of it, that might make it worse...

Think about all those ridiculous and outrageous categories you see on porn sites and realize that most women have already achieved 95% of them by the time they've reached their late 20's.

Lol, "achieved".

 

[mrgoodstuff]

You know it's probably a bad article when it includes the phrase "toxic masculinity".
Does it matter any if all the guys she banged were SoSuave members?
Come to think of it, that might make it worse...


Lol, "achieved".

All of the guys? How the eff is that possible?

So feminist think high body counts dont have any effect on a womans psyche and ability to attach?

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

From the article:

Problem #2: Does your boyfriend feel you’ve slept with too many people?

I’m going to assume that you (rightly) know your number of sexual partners does not define you. Perhaps your boyfriend believes the same thing—on a rational level. And if he doesn’t, well, you don’t need me to tell how you how problematic and misogynistic that is.

If you believe that a girl SHOULDN'T be able to sleep with as many dudes as she wants WITHOUT believing that doesn't define her, than you are MISOGYNISTIC.

This is MAINSTREAM beliefs. Girls should get AS MUCH C*CK as they want. If YOU have a problem with that, YOU are misogynistic.

The amount of cognitive dissonance to maintain such a belief is baffling.

The desire a guy has for a girl is OUTSIDE of his rational control.

If he acts on that UNCONSCIOUS revulsion for Ms. C*ck Gobbler, he is a misogynist.

Yet at the same time, females are allowed to act WITHOUT restraint on their unconscious desire for food, c*ck and tattoos and be REVERED.

Jesus FVCK what a fvcked up society.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I often have the same problem as in the article, except the genders are reversed. We need a term for c0ck carousel as it applies to men's sex lives. Poontang parade?

 

[lamath]

I often have the same problem as in the article, except the genders are reversed. We need a term for c0ck carousel as it applies to men's sex lives. Poontang parade?

Lolll
Im pretty sure you are wise enough and handle this like a champ



Less than a 1000 more that 1.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Imagine a dozen of boxers passing each other the same mouth guard then its your turn and you are supposed to pay it as if it was new and not used, also dont forget that each of them deformed it according to their teeth therefore it wont fit that good on you.

Use this line to explain girls how guys with options consider their c0ck carousel days.

They have to stick in their heads that decent men dont want leftover or spoiled goods not even for free.

 

[Epic Days]

To women on the carousel, every guy is the same. It's something called emotional entanglement. She claims that you always do a particular thing wrong and you're like "what?? we just started dating." She's thinking of a guy 20 c0cks back. At some point her emotions become permanently entangled and desensitized. She doesn't know her left and her right anymore. Her romantic emotions are no longer fresh and pliable. I've seen girls behave this way as early as high school. No rhyme or reason to guys she hooks up with. One look into her eyes and you know she's forever lost. And by the time she's 21, her smv is cratered.

I remembered there was a girl in high school that I rejected for some reason even though she was hot. Maybe I was distracted by other girls. Anyway she went on to cratering her SMV by her senior year! Didn't even wait until her 20's, lol. And when she became unrecognizable, she blamed me for not "saving her." That was how entitled/delusional she was. She somehow thought it was my responsibility to rescue her from the c0ck carousel. And my "failure" to love her was the reason she became a slvt in her mind.

That's the general attitude of c0ck carousel riding chicks. They grew up as daddy's little girl and they put the responsibility on guys to give them that romantic fantasy. And if that doesn't happen, they let themselves go as a form of "acting out." Like "Fine, if you don't love me, then I won't love myself!" This is a infantile attitude by women, created by their fathers spoiling them. Whenever a child doesn't get what it wants, it thinks by hurting itself that it also hurts the parents.

Growing up I had so many girls give me that look "You know, this is your last chance to save me before I ruin myself." I'm like fvck that. I'm a selfish prick who just happens to look like a romantic hero. You can go fvck yourself. I've got my own life to life. It's all about me, myself, and I....not Irene. Every year a new chick turns 18. The hell do I care, lol.

Very insightful Stormy. It smells of experience. I once made a comment on the threads here and was lambasted. I commented on how a woman left to her own devices will wreck not only herself but most things in her life. Obviously it was just observation on my part. I didn't read it anywhere.

This is the importance of a masculine man who understands this world is a lie. Those women want and need a man. She destroys herself.

The system puts little boys on drugs to make them docile and easily to program and manipulate. Women at some point will have wrecked herself enough that she seeks out drugs to make her feel better. Going to the doctor to get Adderal or Prozac just to function.

 

[Epic Days]

A lot of women are a complete wreck when they are single. They wait until they get some validation from being in a relationship before they start doing good for themselves. Their attitude is of the Marilyn Monroe variety: "If he doesn't love me at my worse, then he doesn't deserve me at my best." This is a needy and entitled woman's attitude. The world is not responsible for loving her. But she is convinced of it because of Daddy. So she lets herself go to sh1t before some guy comes and validates her. It's actually a sickness for women. Romance for them is nothing more than a tool that feeds their vanity and neediness. I am inclined to say this is 100% of females that you will run into. If you believe in unicorns, then 99%.

You have your c0ck carousel riding women..and your needy monkey branchers..which makes up for 99% of the female population.

Maybe 1% non-needy women.

I agree with your assessment. These guys hoping for the 1% or less dropping onto their lap and saying “Hello love of my life.”
Is so far from reality that it’s sad.

 

[MatureDJ]

I often have the same problem as in the article, except the genders are reversed. We need a term for c0ck carousel as it applies to men's sex lives. Poontang parade?

I knew this guy that graduated high school in the early '70s, and he went through the big disco era. He said the discos were like "an all-night puussy parade".

 

[MatureDJ]

To women on the carousel, every guy is the same. It's something called emotional entanglement. She claims that you always do a particular thing wrong and you're like "what?? we just started dating." She's thinking of a guy 20 c0cks back.

BINGO!

 

[zekko]

I often have the same problem as in the article, except the genders are reversed. We need a term for c0ck carousel as it applies to men's sex lives. Poontang parade?

You can certainly overdo it to the point that you are emotionally numb. But it's not the same thing for men and women, and it isn't because of a double standard. Women put it on men, they want their men to be experienced sexually. So guys have to get sexual experience in order to please their women. Men do not demand that women are sexually experienced.