"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dustmuffin

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I have been chatting it up with quite a few girls in their early 20s. I am 52...one counter girl is 23 and we seem to get along real well. Thinking of inviting her over for cigars and drinks netflix. How should i play this? She is poor works at 7 11. Invite as friend she gets drunk see what happens? Thoughts?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Get some blunt wraps and put some actual good sh!t in there... Like some good weed. That in a small-moderate amount along with alcohol will guarantee you a bang if you're half way decent with women.

There's no harm in trying. Get her over.
Will do...can't do weed bcasue I work for the gubmint. What kind of alcohol do young girls like? Just get Swisher sweets or good gars? Suggestion?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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maybe some half way decent Vodka like smirnoff. I'd do the vodka.
Smirnoff?. Are you kidding? I bathe my toe warts in that swill. C'mon, for semi decent booze, move up the ladder a little bit ;)
 

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sorry OP but I dont think there are any 19 years old girls willing to have sex with a 52 years old guy, unless they are expecting money in return of course.
 

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What are a 52-year old man and a 19-year old girl going to talk about?

Unless this is hands-free, instant masturbation, leave her alone.
She is 23 and that is why I asked the board. I have no clue. She has been pester ing me about how much soda i drink. She is the coke police. She even went as far as to say she wanted white men to live longer. I live on the Hispanic side of town. Yesterday she was giving me **** about the coke and I said hey your hair looks different. She said really? Then I said ya I think you brushed it. Pissed her off. I think I will stick with going monk. One more date Friday and then I will work on my issues only.
 

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Swishers should be fine, why waste a Cuban on a dumb ass girl who can't tell the difference?
Ole Rex is going to have to disagree with the Ruler on this one. Being a "Brother of the Leaf," myself and since you said she smokes sticks herself use this as opportunity to expose her to some new sh*t and take her to you local cigar shop.

Usually your local B&M will have the high back leather comforty chairs and/or couches. They also have BYOB policies. If not, if you're a frequent patron the owner or manager won't trip if you do bring one. Check on the store policy in regards to bringing in outside food. If you can bring in outside food, get a pizza, Subways, Five Guys or something that.

Take ole in the humidor and suggest either a Macanudo, La Gloria Cubana, a Davidoff, a mild or mild to medium cigar.

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Aw that sucks man. God weed's so much better than alcohol. Well, in my experience Patron's been very kind, maybe some half way decent Vodka like smirnoff. I'd do the vodka.[/QUOTE]

Scotch is a good option to. Ruler, I heard Russian Standard is an excellent vodka and as far as tequlia goes try


 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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