"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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After reading Style's book I became inspired to learn routines. It seems that all the big names recommend using canned material to start with. So I collected a few routines and sat myself down to memorize them but I just can't picture myself using them in the field. I've read tons of gurus saying that it will work but I can't make myself believe that they will work for me. I would feel gay trying to tell some chick about "the cube."

I don't think I would be able to use canned material with any enthusiasm or congruence. Should I force myself? Is the reason I'm not good with girls because talking about these kind of things feels queer to me?

-Guittarjedi
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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No you shouldn't do it if you don't want to. I spent alot of time using that **** to no success... try to discover the DJ sides in you and develop them. Best thing you can do is to go networking so you meet more people and learn how to talk to women and people in general. This along with improving who you are will get you far.
 
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It's not what you say, it's as long as you play.
 
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