"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Advertising idea!

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www.popperatzi.com

This sends popups to MSN Messenger users. Seems like a really good advertising idea to me...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You mean to ADVERTISE SOSUAVE ON MSN!!!???:eek:

You gotta be kidding man. Hell No!
 

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Despite the idea others have about myself being grounded to my opinion, I generally like the idea of advertising SoSuave.com. After all, Allen does provide this on the homepage. In fact, I would like to see more people passing this site around. The whole idea of secrecy is absolutely pointless. How do you expect to further your skills and expand your knowledge in a small closed group of people? In the past, we likened to the idea of isolating ourselves, but I realize that adopting an isolationist stance isn't productive to the development of this community.

Society changes all the time. We need to change with society as well.
 

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Hmmm.. I agree you Demon at some level.
Think about it. What's the chance that the guys in your neighbourhood become as threat to your game?
Kinda low I think.

BTW. let's advertice it with AIM. Not MSN.
Most of my friends are using MSN, so... :D:D:D
 

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Originally posted by Demon
In fact, I would like to see more people passing this site around. The whole idea of secrecy is absolutely pointless. How do you expect to further your skills and expand your knowledge in a small closed group of people? In the past, we likened to the idea of isolating ourselves, but I realize that adopting an isolationist stance isn't productive to the development of this community.
Hmmm, its good to see your opinions have changed since your whole "get the fukk off this forum" thread.

Anyway, I tend to agree that the more people passing through this site tends to add a bit more diversity and usually the people most interested in self improvement and sarging are the ones that stick around anyway. Nonetheless, I'm sure Allen would have had countless opportunities to advertise this site before and he hasn't so maybe he isnt too keen on the idea.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What "get the fukk off this forum" thread? I know I made one back in 2001, but I don't remember making any one of those types of threads in 2002 or 03.
 

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Ahh, Im pretty sure it was last year, because I remember replying to it, but if not, sorry for bringing up the past. I just hate this idea that a lot of people on this forum have that this place is a "secret society".
 

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Originally posted by Donjuanpablo
Nonetheless, I'm sure Allen would have had countless opportunities to advertise this site before and he hasn't so maybe he isnt too keen on the idea.
Actually, you'd be shocked if you knew how much time and money is spent on advertising each month.
 
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