So there's a girl in my Science class who's name is Lauren. We'll talk sometimes, but as of now she really doesn't seem all that attracted. Basically, I talked to her about pianos with a few of my friends and then she sort of exited the set after we were done talking. Then later we talked alone and I was like "Are you going to the game on Friday?" blah blah, eventually she says "No, it's kind of boring" and then I'm like "Well I'll be there" the bell rings and she sort of laughs.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Advancing things with this girl.
- Thread starter ElStud
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