The Master Disaster
Master Don Juan
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Many people on this board say its complex and hard to get out of the friends zone. I find it not really hard. When your in the friends zone your looked on as a "kind" person who wouldn't advance on her. Someone who she can trust, and who wouldn't ever hurt her. Thats what I will try to help you to get out of.
1st Step: When you talk to her. If she brings up her life story talk to someone else, and just say "excuse me." She will be offended to say the least, but if you listened to that you would be another shoulder to cry on. If someone is crying on your shoulder and you don't want them to what do you do? You yank that shoulder away.
2nd Step: When you talk to her don't talk about anything personal it may seem weird. Talk about good positive things nothing that sucks. One major thing is to focus on yourself. This builds you up in her mind. If you want examples say:
Her: How are you doing?
You: I'm doing amazing.
Her: How did you do that?
You: Did you know my middle name was amazing?
3rd Step: After you build yourself up, you must get her to look at you as a possible mate. The way to do this is to spend time with other woman INFRONT of her. She'll see hey this guy is worth something.
4th Step: Don't Iniatate jack. Make her talk to you. Make her ask you. Make her do everything in the relationship. It will cause her to think about you so much that she'll dream about you.
5th Step: The kill. Ask her to walk with you at night (Something romantic). Just make sure she thinks its a privilage to even talk to you. Then when you know she has no other obsticles to overcome to say "Yes." ask her out.
That works for me/friends 100% of the time. This should be done in about a 2-3 week frame.
1st Step: When you talk to her. If she brings up her life story talk to someone else, and just say "excuse me." She will be offended to say the least, but if you listened to that you would be another shoulder to cry on. If someone is crying on your shoulder and you don't want them to what do you do? You yank that shoulder away.
2nd Step: When you talk to her don't talk about anything personal it may seem weird. Talk about good positive things nothing that sucks. One major thing is to focus on yourself. This builds you up in her mind. If you want examples say:
Her: How are you doing?
You: I'm doing amazing.
Her: How did you do that?
You: Did you know my middle name was amazing?
3rd Step: After you build yourself up, you must get her to look at you as a possible mate. The way to do this is to spend time with other woman INFRONT of her. She'll see hey this guy is worth something.
4th Step: Don't Iniatate jack. Make her talk to you. Make her ask you. Make her do everything in the relationship. It will cause her to think about you so much that she'll dream about you.
5th Step: The kill. Ask her to walk with you at night (Something romantic). Just make sure she thinks its a privilage to even talk to you. Then when you know she has no other obsticles to overcome to say "Yes." ask her out.
That works for me/friends 100% of the time. This should be done in about a 2-3 week frame.