"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Advancing one's career with women

bob2007

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So, I have this theory that there are successful women in high positions (better position than me in the business world) who are unattached. I think there would be plenty of men who would be intimidated by them.

So wouldn't it be a great idea to hit on them and advance my career? And who knows... maybe some sex to go along with it wouldn't be such a bad idea.

Thoughts?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mr. Wolf

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Wolf packs have alpha males and alpha females. It's very fine to date an alpha female, she's just a first one to get sex.


I have a thing for women in business suits, with those skirts and long sexy legs. :up:
 

meitenesrigas

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The powers that be in business are almost always men or in some cases women who have the right blood lines. Next time you are out just watch who gets out of the luxury cars. I don't care where you are on this earth. The women getting out of them are by and large women who have made it by getting into the right guy's bed. The few women that do make it in business tend to be lesbians or almost impossible to deal with.

I do know many men who have gotten ahead by sleeping their way to the top via other men. Many top level executives, business owners, and investors live double lives. They have the wife and kids along with a younger male lover.

Reality is escaping many of you.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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