Alright well me and my girlfriend have been going out about 2-3 months and we saw each other in school and whatnot. But now school is out and I havent seen her for like 2 weeks. We dont talk on the phone, we mostly talk on msn. We both have eachothers numbers but we are just lazy. This is honestly pissing me off that we do not see eachother. I have already talked to her about it, and got some reasons.She is an amazing girl. Great body, personality, I for once like a girl alot. I am thinking about how I can go about this the DJ way. I do not want to break up with her, its like she has a hold over me. I have thought about breaking up with her but then the thought that I really like her pops into my head. DAMNIT I am becoming my old AFC form it seems like. Any and all advice is welcome,thanks
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Advanced DJ needs help with gf
- Thread starter grokster
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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i don't know about that i heard that girls love to talk on the phone since you guys been going out for about 2-3 months something is wrong with this picture probably another guy i don't know.
i also think that your the one that mostly care about the relashionship here you need to be of a chanllange.
Let her know that you don't like what is happeing but don't tell her in words just don't go online she will be wondering what is hapening to you and she has to call you.
I understand that you like her alot but read the bible and kill that desperation.
Also let her know that you go out with out her and why don’t you go to her house since you guys been going out for 2or3 months i think that your not longer in her plans what i mean here is LTR.
drixsa
Master Don Juan
sounds like somethin is up or you both smoke way too much weed for your own good
heres an idea...why dontyou make plans with her??
youdont really need a reason, she is your GF
im a little more paranoid when it comes to GFs and relationships so my first thought was that she may want to break it off with you or is having more fun without you
at the least just ask her, in person, nNOT over the INTERNET, what is up? and if anything wrong?
heres an idea...why dontyou make plans with her??
youdont really need a reason, she is your GF
im a little more paranoid when it comes to GFs and relationships so my first thought was that she may want to break it off with you or is having more fun without you
at the least just ask her, in person, nNOT over the INTERNET, what is up? and if anything wrong?
dayr0n, I have read both bibles many times. I am a very advanced dj this is the first relationship I have had problems with in a long while. But I thank you both for your posts, it was kind of a kick in the nuts to get back into my dj mindset. I am going to call her up in a little while and make a date. If she bull****s me around I will end it.
drixsa
Master Don Juan
grokster, what was your previous handle on this site?
misunderstood??
Master Don Juan
telling us the reasons she gave would probably be helpful.
Wont Stop Mackin
Don Juan
If your so advancded you wouldnt need our help =)
drixsa
Master Don Juan
again, what is with the flame??
you provide nothing useful yet post and dis, i dont understand>?
even some of the best can use an outsiders perspective every once in a while
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Wont Stop Mackin
Don Juan
haha.. jeez you guys.. Easy
If he wanted help that bad, Then here goes
I've been in this situation before, it seems like your falling for her quicker than shes falling for you, of course u've both fallen otherwise you wouldnt be together but sometimes you ahve to maintain your challenge. So next time you talk to her get her interested again and then take it away from her, find a reason to get off the phone, make her think you have something better to do, but dont try to win her back, if shes already gone, just let her go....
If he wanted help that bad, Then here goes
I've been in this situation before, it seems like your falling for her quicker than shes falling for you, of course u've both fallen otherwise you wouldnt be together but sometimes you ahve to maintain your challenge. So next time you talk to her get her interested again and then take it away from her, find a reason to get off the phone, make her think you have something better to do, but dont try to win her back, if shes already gone, just let her go....
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this situation sucks ass, i know...but u really shouldnt depend on this chick for entertainment, especially now since ur not seeing her much...i understand that you like her and all, but dont let her dictate the fun that u have...she's probably out enjoying herself considering that she's not making much of an effort to contact u... just have fun on your own, with your guy friends (or even another girl)...just dont let her have your nuts in her purse...
TeflonDon, that's a real slick name you got there 
As for your problem Grokster, just have your own fun and enjoy yourself. If she wants to be a part of your life, then she needs to contact you. If she doesn't, then it's her loss. Remember that YOU DON'T NEED HER, so let her be the one to settle things.
As for your problem Grokster, just have your own fun and enjoy yourself. If she wants to be a part of your life, then she needs to contact you. If she doesn't, then it's her loss. Remember that YOU DON'T NEED HER, so let her be the one to settle things.