"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Advanced Bodylanguage.

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Does anybody know a few good books about advanced bodylanguage, im not talking about the basic stuff like a girl playing with her hair, or the way she sits, but more..say hannibal lector ish?

damn, posted in the wrong forum, could someone please move? thx..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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http://members.aol.com/nonverbal2/diction1.htm#The

thats free...
for advanced stuff... I don't know any books at the bookstore... I ask my shrink stuff and I read old college med books.

I guess you could buy college text books that a shrink would buy.

As for being like Hannibal Lector. Less of it is in books as just sitting back and observing.

When I meet people in real life I can tell a lot about them not because of the way they position there hands but because of how they act how they smell there accent., ect.

Just observe.
 

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scan em! :d jk
 
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