"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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HighResurrection

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Doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result is a good definition for insanity. If you want to get better with women, change must be embraced. Whether your approaching our in a relationship observe what your doing well, observe what you doing wrong. Once you know where you need to improve make the adjustment. An example would be, you made an approach but you were aware that you had poor eye contact. When you go home take a little time and study eye contact, practice in front of a large mirror, and visual a strong gaze. Get out the next day and do it again. Over time your weak point will turn into strengths, but you must make the adjustments.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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People will be more likely to message you for coaching if you use words properly. Weather is not the same as whether. Were is not the same as where. Message me for coaching.
 

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Deadly_Ripped said:
People will be more likely to message you for coaching if you use words properly. Weather is not the same as whether. Were is not the same as where. Message me for coaching.

People that tell others to ask them for coaching are not applicable to give out coaching lessons.

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void957 said:
People that tell others to ask them for coaching are not applicable to give out coaching lessons.

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I like your style void957. Check your inbox for a coaching request. Oh and I really hope you charge for your coaching... I would hate to think you'd support an online community by giving your wisdom away for free and in public.
 

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What's with the hate? I have no problem taking a correction. A grammar mistake vs saying something not factual are two different things.

"People that tell others to ask them for coaching are not applicable to give out coaching lessons."

This makes sense? Seems like hate to me. Thanks for the correction.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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