"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result is a good definition for insanity. If you want to get better with women, change must be embraced. Whether your approaching our in a relationship observe what your doing well, observe what you doing wrong. Once you know where you need to improve make the adjustment. An example would be, you made an approach but you were aware that you had poor eye contact. When you go home take a little time and study eye contact, practice in front of a large mirror, and visual a strong gaze. Get out the next day and do it again. Over time your weak point will turn into strengths, but you must make the adjustments.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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People will be more likely to message you for coaching if you use words properly. Weather is not the same as whether. Were is not the same as where. Message me for coaching.
 
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People will be more likely to message you for coaching if you use words properly. Weather is not the same as whether. Were is not the same as where. Message me for coaching.
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People that tell others to ask them for coaching are not applicable to give out coaching lessons.

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People that tell others to ask them for coaching are not applicable to give out coaching lessons.

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I like your style void957. Check your inbox for a coaching request. Oh and I really hope you charge for your coaching... I would hate to think you'd support an online community by giving your wisdom away for free and in public.
 
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What's with the hate? I have no problem taking a correction. A grammar mistake vs saying something not factual are two different things.

"People that tell others to ask them for coaching are not applicable to give out coaching lessons."

This makes sense? Seems like hate to me. Thanks for the correction.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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