"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Just worth a mention because you're out there.

If your mates don't care for the DJ mentality or you are selfish and don't want to share it with them, post a reply and make yourself known. At least then you can share some info around with a local DJ.

I don't care about your social status, how many HBs you've pulled in, your calf muscle etc.. just reaching out to share and discuss some local DJ knowledge. For the shy DJs, feel free to PM me if you don't want to reveal yourselves.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I like how 19 people wanted to know what I had to say but no one is from Adelaide. Arh well... 6 weeks til I'm out of this craphole. :rolleyes:
 

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Yeha, I'm thinking of stopping over in Syd or Melb with a friend before I leave for Cali.
 

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I'm from Adelaide. I just discovered this great community (I'm sorry I only came across it now!)

I'm a relatively new player to the game, previously I've just done my own thing without using any techniques or routines (well, not conscously using them anyway).

I had a good run and pulled about 10, kc'ing all, in the space of a few months - which, mind you, was very good by my standards ;). I broke up with my gf of 6 months approximately 2 months ago, and I hate to admit this, but I turned into your ordinary, everyday AFC. Until I read a certain book by Neil Strauss. These past few weeks have been a revelation for me - I feel transformed, and I am ready to play the game. I have done intense studying and I feel I can now go practice all the knowledge I have gained. This weekend signals the beginning of a new phase in my life, and I'll be happy to share what I can with everyone among this community (that's if you guys want to, of course).

Happy sarging to you all.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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hey everyone

just wanted to let you all know that i am in adelaide also, just joined recently and am looking forward to posting some field reports, anybody got any tips on where i should go if i want to figure out the rules for posting reports?

have a bunch of dyd stuff, have read the game and also have been on a bootcamp with rsd

i'm pretty good at cold approaches, opening, cold reading, value demonstrations, kino escalation

my sticking points at the moment are venue changing, using time constraints, phone flaking, kiss closing and dealing with alphas

anyways i have decided that i'm going to kill off all of my weaknesses one by one whatever it takes so if you need someone to wing with get in touch with me

cheers

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