"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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adding a gf to myspace

KneghtRyder

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i dont have a gf right now


but if you add your gf to your myspace and she sees all your other friends ...even other girls you've banged


will that be bad news
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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djSlvt

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That's not what you should focus on, over thinker.

The act of adding her to your myspace indicates you're into her, and she has that much less to prove. Easy come, easy go.
 

djSlvt

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Yea, if she asks you to make her work for it. If you ask her to add you, then you're doing the wrong thing, you're being a nice AFC guy.
 

Capt.Jack Sparrow

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Myspace.. f*ckin myspace nowadays hahaha
Everyone has to have one don't they?

Don't worry 'bout it man I mean, your not gonna sit there with her and point out which ones you've banged right? Your a mad man if you do.

Their your aquintances, friends whatever. Lets say if you did have a girlfriend and she has a myspace with guy friends on it. Are you gonna get mad?
I wouldn't. Every chick is gonna have guy friends and vice vesera with males.
 
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