"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Adding a chick on facebook weird?

RSanders219

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Hey guys, so I met this girl at a party a few weeks ago and we exchanged numbers. We have plans to go out this weekend and I've been playing it cool so far. But I was leaving my friend a comment on FB the other day and saw her under his friends and we have 2 other mutual friends. Just wondering if it might come off as clingy or creepy to her if I added her?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Scion

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For the love of god don't do it! You have her number, there's no need to add her to fb unless you want to kill any chance of sleeping with her.
 

Die Hard

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^ +1

Don't do it!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Berlex

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Let her add you first then ask, "are you stalking me online now?"
 

MurdocNiccals

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Lol @ the answers.

Don't add her, unless one of you ends up asking for the other's Facebook in a text or something.
 

Darth_Qurashi

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you know wat you should do, comment on ur friends page or somethin and say something rlly cool that'll get everyones attention. then jsut wait for her to read it and then she'll see you and add you. 60% of the time, it works everytime ;)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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PapiChulo

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The comment thing doesnt work, because of those dyslexic ho*s have 600+ whatever you call em "friends". You should attention wh*re like crazy than.

Adding is fine as long as you set your profile right and dont reveal much about yourself. If you dont know what you are doing then run.

Adding somebody you really havent met in real life is cre*pish.
 

f283000

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Check out the link in my signature about facebook you need it.

You already have the # so what's the purpose of you adding her? Try to remain mysterious to the women you're trying to seduce and that means giving away as little about yourself as possible.

If she wants to learn about you let her EARN IT by accepting to spend time alone with you rather than you allowing her to learn about you just by easily reading your facebook page. This makes her do work to get to know you and keeps you mysterious.
 
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