Addicted to the girls i can't seem to get.

[the pokemaster]

I've been reading this site for four years. And i love it. It's really good.
However i openly hate when you guys say to move on to the next chick if it doesn't seem to be going right and the girl is showing signs of disinterest etc.

I hate it. And i know its best to move on because theres plenty of girls out there. But damn, i hate failing. I have some mad mental case of trophyism that i do need to deal with in future. but right now i need you guys to help me out.

It usually goes like this, i get the girls number, call her, work my game, meet up with her, work my game, meet up with her again, bang her.

But if a girl is rejecting you, how do you recover?

I usually stop talking to her for a while, then come back and see what she's saying. See if she wanna link up. But sometimes it don't work.

And its not even like i can go through the friend zone route and turn myself into a high status male, or start playin with her head. Friend zone i can deal with lol. Some chicks don't really want anymore friends lol. We may not be in the same social groups etc for that to work. We dont go to the same places, or have the same friends. I usually back off when i feel its got to this point.

But when i come back to move to them its more like i'm in the "Oh that guy thats still trying to get me 2 like him zone." Despite how ****y and funny he is. When i get to this point i usually think its all over. Sometimes they even have boyfriends, or someone their involved with. Thats a reallll pain in the ass.

IS THERE A WAY ROUND THIS?

btw when i mean rejection, i mean your gaming her and after a while you can tell just by her reactions and her actions that she's not interested so you back off before she gets bored of it in the hope of coming back on a fresh new sheet with better game.

 

[Solomon]

Hold up you been reading since 14? can you post a picture what do you look like (No logical player!)

IMO

Log off, sarge as many chicks possible let rejection become a "natural" thing to you, to a point where it doesn't bug you!!

sarge on!!

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Your like a kid who wants a toy but, mommy wont buy it for you. Eventually, you find another toy you want more and sometimes you get it.

Women are replaceable and there is usually a better offer out there. If a girl rejects you. Get over it and move on.

 

[the pokemaster]

lol fair enough.

 

[Kevin Feng]

That's just the reality of it, I don't really see what you're getting at specifically.

Here's the bottom line, NOT every girl is going to be into you. Mystery and Matador get blown out of sets. That's the it of it, there is no magic bullet around it, it's just part of the game. It's like trying to win a game of tennis without ever looing a point. It just isn't going to happen.

It says you're 18, perhaps that's the issue you're having since you can't quite get into clubs yet.

If you're having that issue, I'd recommend more day-game or just going to 18+ clubs.

-Kevin

 

[darkstarrr]

1. People are naturally attracted to that which eludes them
2. People have a natural tendency to want that which they cannot have

Knowing this will enable you to move past the emotionality of these situations and think more logically in your interactions with not only women but with life in general.

Good luck.