"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Addicted to Porn, how to kick the habit?

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Hard to quit it out of will power if you dont change the settings which pushed you there.

Do something that makes you physically tired and at the same time make you feel good so you wont look for porn gratification, lifting weights is great.

The more you get far from that, the easier it become, I believe my last wanking was few weeks ago and before that months while I spent my teens going heavy on that simply cause I didnt have anything to do and my brain was craving for satisfaction.

You see sometime you are horny and you wank to release while most of the times its porn that push you to wank to have your brain release endorphines, its like hungry people eating meat against fat people eating candies just for the taste.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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tomwesten27

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Thank you all for your replies.

I am on day 3 and its going well. It does feel good to not be cranking one out multiple times a day. I have increased my time in the gym, started watching my diet and getting back into the old fitness routine.

What gets me is living in LA I go to the gym to clear my mind and I see nothing but HOT women in those tight spandex gym pants with the big boobs and tight butts and I literally want to crank one out the second I get home. Its crazy.

I have been focusing more on my work out routine, and stated more cold approaching and its good. Hopefully can start picking up more plates and using my increased sexx drive towards actual real life females rather then watching a damn video.

Keep you all posted.
 

Hogwild

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like others have said, yourbrainonporn is an excellent resource!
 
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