Yeah... is it bad to go on everyday? I mean it goes against the bible availibility wise. Its like im fricken addicted, when i get on my computer i naturally click aim, sometimes just to see if certain girls are on. What do you guys think a reasonable amount per week online is?
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Hmm, well it's common sense to be on as few amount of times as you can. Girls will start to think that you have nothing better to do than get on the computer. Although, you shouldn't totally quit getting on AIM. I'm not a big fan of AIM and AOL chats, but it doesn't look like they're going to go away. Just try not to get on so much. If you're addicted, try and find something else to do with your time. Go play a sport, exercise, hang out with your friends, play an instrument, get a job--haha that helped me. This is all pretty much common sense though.
SparkleMotion
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I see no problem in being online a lot, as long as you have a reason to be sitting in front of the computer other then just talking on AIM. For instance working on homework or whatever (I'm on AIM while forum surfing 
) . But if you are just staring at the screen waiting for girls to get on so you can talk to them, then it's time to log off and get outside.
) . But if you are just staring at the screen waiting for girls to get on so you can talk to them, then it's time to log off and get outside.personally, i use Aim, well MSN more. Just block the girls who you are desperate to speak to/obsess about. Even better, start up a new account to chill with ur bros if your online and have your old one as a general one for absolutely anyone. Then log into the new one more often. Id say you should check email about once a day (i get important stuff through it), but if necessary just swithc your status to appear offline. Then if you see someone you wanna talk to you can come on.
Or you could leave it permanently on, always on away, so they think its just your pc being on.
Or you could leave it permanently on, always on away, so they think its just your pc being on.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
EDIT: whoever just decided to come and IM me, in their morning, my afternoon obviously did not get what i was trying to say here. I have also outlined it here http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=52115&highlight=internet
My ideas on the use of Instant Messaging for Dating are that it can be useful, like text messaging, but that contact through it is not as good as the real thing. I flirt through the internet (AIM, ICQ, MSN and through email) but it IMOHO is no substitute for real contact.
If like the original poster you were trying to follow a policy of mystery and showing you have a life (apart from the obvious fallacies in not having a life so that you have to pretend you are busy), you can not sit online wihtout destroying at least part of the facade. Now I am not trying to encourage you to have a facade, but if you do have one then do not have obvious gaps in it.
To explain my quoted post. What i mean is that if you want to be online, then do not always be online speaking to the girls that you are attempting to get with. There are ways around it, blocking them, but then its a bit rude (on MSN/trillian u can always see them come on and then go speak to them), or you could create seperate internet accounts: one for your closest friends and one for everyone else including girls that you are trying to pick up. You can also have your status switched to appear offline. What i meant by the check your email once a day is to only really speak to a paarticular girl in one time block, ie not all day (anyway what are you doing picking up the kind of girls that spend all day sitting online).
I hope i clarified what i meant.
Disclaimer: if you disagree with me then you dont have to put it into effect.
TyTe`EyEs
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Dude as long as you're not always available on AIM you're straight. If you're always on it makes you look like you have nothing better to do.
I'm online for about an hour every day before I go to work. I have a job, two bands, a girlfriend, and school work to keep up...no one thinks any less of me. The way I see it, you shouldn't sit around your house wondering "Should I be online right now?" You should have enough of a life that when you have nothing else to do, you can go on AIM without worrying about whether or not you're online too much. Get a job, get a hobby, in short - have enough going on that you don't NEED to be online all the time.
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dude, blocking people is never a good idea. It can lead you to more problems. Like, a friend might tell them ur online and she might be like "wtf, he's trying to avoid me?" Or maybe she has another sn you don't know and she can see your actually on but you blocked her.
Just use away messages. I'm on like 24/7, but 22 out of the 24 hrs, or even 23 sometimes, my away message is up. But don't tell people your life through your away messages. Like "going to school 7-3, then practice, then food, then back." The less you say, the more people will wonder what you're up to, and think about you. Like, the only away mesage I ever use is "gone. bye"
Just use away messages. I'm on like 24/7, but 22 out of the 24 hrs, or even 23 sometimes, my away message is up. But don't tell people your life through your away messages. Like "going to school 7-3, then practice, then food, then back." The less you say, the more people will wonder what you're up to, and think about you. Like, the only away mesage I ever use is "gone. bye"
Ak89
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ya AIm is addicting i'm like on everyday and for i can't stop.
He does not have to change his online habits for a female, which is why i recommend having multiple accounts. If its something he enjoys, then by all means do it, but if he is trying to come across as mysterious and unavailable then it is counter productive to be contactable by her 24/7. Any tactic such as frequent away messages, that shows that you are not obsessed and do do other things is a good idea.