"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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added girl on fb, she has bf, delete her?

pyros

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Hello.


I met a girl that is friends with a friend of mine.
We talked for 30mins, we laughed, she touched my arm, showed me some pictures of her and her girl friends in her cellphone etc. She said that she was very pleased to meet me and I added her on FB.


Now I go to her profile and I see she has a boyfriend.



What do you do in this cases? I sent her a message to meet, but no reply.
Wtf? she acceps my request but she doesnt reply.
Woul you delete her from your fb or keep her there just in case she contacts you?



Experiences? Tips?

P.S.
This same thing happened twice this week with two girls, damn it.


Thanks.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Desdinova

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Just because she has a bf, it doesn't mean she's not looking to replace him. Keep her around and flirt with her until she shows the desire to meet up with you. Until then, spin more plates.
 

Duracell_Bunny

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I'd keep her on your friend list but I wouldn't try contacting her again.

There's too many possible reasons to care about this one. The main point is why would you want to date a chick who meets other men behind her b/fs back?

She could be looking to make her b/f jealous by getting his attention adding lots of random men.

Another view is she genuinely had a thing for you but is faithful the her b/f. She could have been thinking of hooking you up with one of her girlie friends, hence she was showing you pics of them! Why else would she do that?

Either way, just sit back and don't focus on this one.

BTW - Why are you not asking for these who chicks numbers?
 

Who Dares Win

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Keep her among your friends but dont bother to work on her.

If she is good looking its good for your social proof department and to make other girls guessing who she is when they read X and Y became friends.

Also as duracell said, there is a chance some of her friend will see you and ask her friend to introduce the both of you.
Anyway most of the girls are b1tches (at least the ones I pick up at clubs) so if you dont mind banging an engaged girl, theres a good chance you can.
 

Zerro

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Who Dares Win said:
Keep her among your friends but dont bother to work on her.
About a year ago when I met and friended my current girlfriend she was dating another guy at the time. A few months after that they broke up and after a couple weeks then I started gaming her.

There's nothing wrong with keeping a taken girl on your friends list, just stay friendly but aloof. Be awesome but don't be actively working on her. After all, she has a boyfriend, not a husband. Boyfriends are by definition temporary.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Greasy Pig

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This exact same thing happened to me a couple of weeks ago.
I couldn't believe it!
Good thread and good replies.
 

pyros

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Hi.


Duracell_bunny, I did not think about why she showed me pics of her an her girl friends. You may be right.


The thing is I sent her a message suggesting to meet, and she did not reply. So I guess I should not contact her again.

She's going abroad for a whole year next week, so I just send her a message just in case she was a slut and wanted to bang before leaving lol.

Her girl friendw were pretty hot too.
 

LuisGarcia10

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A girl touching your arm and accepting a Facebook friend request doesn't mean she wants to date you...
She probably just enjoyed meeting you, so why wouldn't she accept a friend request?
 
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