northern_rock
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Good afternoon!
Firstly, just found this forum and it makes for a truly interesting read. Thanks in advance for taking the time to read/respond!
A little about me, I'm 26, emigrated from England 4 years ago with my common-law spouse and our daughter. We now have 2 little girls though are now separated. Things are amicable.
So a lot changed between being an eligible bachelor at 20 and 26. I had no idea what to expect. I've always done OK, better than OK actually, with the opposite sex. But the accent and old-school gentlemanly mannerisms I obtained from serving my apprenticeship in the UK have served me phenomenally well and I've not been too hung up on any one femme in particular. Until now.
I work in a College, though I'm not an instructor. This girl is a student, same age, single mom. She approached me when I first went through my separation though I felt like I was compromising my integrity and didn't want to be s4itting where I eat, so things didn't go very far. She's absolutely stunning, and I was genuinely tempted, but followed my gut. We didn't talk for months, though we'd see eachother on campus often.
A month ago she messaged me on facebook. She gave me her new cell number and said she'd 'missed' talking to me and asked if we could be friends (she graduates in 3 weeks). We talked a bit over the next few days and scheduled a date that next weekend. She came to my place, I made her dinner, and before I had chance to tidy the dishes away we were making out on the couch like teenagers, she stood up, led me to the bedroom, and we did the naughty dance. It was unbelievable.
She cabbed home, and texted me in the morning proclaiming how amazing the night was, that she'd thoroughly enjoyed everything that happened, especially the sex, and that she'd like to see me again. She came to my place Monday morning, I drove her home (via my place) Wednesday, and we spent all afternoon together Thursday, doing lunch before returning to...you guessed it.
We didn't see eachother this past weekend, I had my daughters, and it was nice to take a step back from the whirlwind, though I did think about her. We spoke on the phone last night and made plans for this (Good) Friday and she intends to stay over. The main thing that concerns me though is this girl NEVER initiates contact. She will reply to every text and answers most calls, but whereas I will text her the odd nicety, or inquire about her day, she rarely does the same. When we see eachother on campus it's like we're total strangers, which is obviously understandable.
But I'm starting to think (probably too much) about where she's coming from. We were supposed to get together this Monday morning but she said she had too much running around to do. I offered her a ride home today and she said she was going tanning. Though she did text me to say I looked handsome today and she liked my tie (?!). Which was in response to my texting I'd heard a song on the radio which made me think of her.
She has also said things such as 'you're starting to look like everything I've been looking for' and 'I feel sooo good with you' and apparently swears that the sex is the best she's ever had. Though I don't know quite how legitimate that may be...she certainly seems to enjoy it. Most of this was a few days ago, and though we've been in contact since, she's giving me fewer messages to feel really good about. She asked me Saturday If I'd accept a date offer from another girl, and I didn't quite know how to respond! I said I wouldn't know 'til it happened, though re-affirmed me enthusiasm to see how this goes.
Sorry this was so long but like I said I'm a newbie and still trying to adapt to these abbreviations and such haha. Do I have anything to worry about? I've not contacted her since yesterday and plan to resist doing so...
Thanks to all (any) who beared with me!
Firstly, just found this forum and it makes for a truly interesting read. Thanks in advance for taking the time to read/respond!
A little about me, I'm 26, emigrated from England 4 years ago with my common-law spouse and our daughter. We now have 2 little girls though are now separated. Things are amicable.
So a lot changed between being an eligible bachelor at 20 and 26. I had no idea what to expect. I've always done OK, better than OK actually, with the opposite sex. But the accent and old-school gentlemanly mannerisms I obtained from serving my apprenticeship in the UK have served me phenomenally well and I've not been too hung up on any one femme in particular. Until now.
I work in a College, though I'm not an instructor. This girl is a student, same age, single mom. She approached me when I first went through my separation though I felt like I was compromising my integrity and didn't want to be s4itting where I eat, so things didn't go very far. She's absolutely stunning, and I was genuinely tempted, but followed my gut. We didn't talk for months, though we'd see eachother on campus often.
A month ago she messaged me on facebook. She gave me her new cell number and said she'd 'missed' talking to me and asked if we could be friends (she graduates in 3 weeks). We talked a bit over the next few days and scheduled a date that next weekend. She came to my place, I made her dinner, and before I had chance to tidy the dishes away we were making out on the couch like teenagers, she stood up, led me to the bedroom, and we did the naughty dance. It was unbelievable.
She cabbed home, and texted me in the morning proclaiming how amazing the night was, that she'd thoroughly enjoyed everything that happened, especially the sex, and that she'd like to see me again. She came to my place Monday morning, I drove her home (via my place) Wednesday, and we spent all afternoon together Thursday, doing lunch before returning to...you guessed it.
We didn't see eachother this past weekend, I had my daughters, and it was nice to take a step back from the whirlwind, though I did think about her. We spoke on the phone last night and made plans for this (Good) Friday and she intends to stay over. The main thing that concerns me though is this girl NEVER initiates contact. She will reply to every text and answers most calls, but whereas I will text her the odd nicety, or inquire about her day, she rarely does the same. When we see eachother on campus it's like we're total strangers, which is obviously understandable.
But I'm starting to think (probably too much) about where she's coming from. We were supposed to get together this Monday morning but she said she had too much running around to do. I offered her a ride home today and she said she was going tanning. Though she did text me to say I looked handsome today and she liked my tie (?!). Which was in response to my texting I'd heard a song on the radio which made me think of her.
She has also said things such as 'you're starting to look like everything I've been looking for' and 'I feel sooo good with you' and apparently swears that the sex is the best she's ever had. Though I don't know quite how legitimate that may be...she certainly seems to enjoy it. Most of this was a few days ago, and though we've been in contact since, she's giving me fewer messages to feel really good about. She asked me Saturday If I'd accept a date offer from another girl, and I didn't quite know how to respond! I said I wouldn't know 'til it happened, though re-affirmed me enthusiasm to see how this goes.
Sorry this was so long but like I said I'm a newbie and still trying to adapt to these abbreviations and such haha. Do I have anything to worry about? I've not contacted her since yesterday and plan to resist doing so...
Thanks to all (any) who beared with me!
a few hours ago, whatever that's supposed to mean. In a way this would be a much easier/more enjoyable scenario if we didn't have to see each other every day...though I guess she's finished soon. I was contacted twice this weekend by girls I've been on dates with in the past...though plowing fields that don't yield the crops I'm after isn't that appealing, tbh. And having my kids 3 nights a week doesn't allow for great networking possibilities, though it's something I'd never change.