"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
AD, could you please give me your advice?
- Thread starter DJXTC
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Austin Powers
Don Juan
the weekend is always set aside for fun and relaxation-i think a chick will try and have extra fun on the weekend-i dont think other guys are making mistakes dating her on the weekend-your gonna mess around and they will be SCORING on the weekend while you are being mr mack and making her wait.
also this is a fatal flaw and i will tell you why. you are just dating her thats it!! you dont have her locked yet or she would not be dating others-therefor any guy can move in on you at any time and she is still open to other guys--runnin round tryna play "i'm not gonna call" will get your ass swoopeded on.
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International Man Of Mystery
Formerly, Low Self Esteem
[This message has been edited by Austin Powers (edited 06-22-2000).]
Anti-Dump
Master Don Juan
When you call sunday tell her father to tell her that Joseph Lastname called. No number. If her parents ask for it give it to them.
If she isn't home you will make one more call on tuesday, leaving your
name and number.
If she is INTERESTED in you she will ask her parents to MAKE SURE she knows you called.
With third parties answering the phone it is very difficult to get a girl sometimes. Here's my comment if she doesn't call you after you leave your number tuesday: THROW THE NUMBER AWAY.
You don't have to put up with THIRD PARTIES not giving her the word. The NEXT girl won't have a hassle for you like this.
AD
By the way, I called one of those other girls today. It was today around 7:00, I set things up to where I asked her what she was doing till 11:00. Because I had to get to an important party at 11:00. Back when I got her number, she was with three other girls. I got all of their numbers, but I whispered in her ear that I'd definitly be sure to get a hold of her. So I brought it up that I told her I'd get ahold of her.
She said she had was busy and had plans. I told her that I'd hook up with her next week, then told her I had to go because I had another call coming through. Did I handle that ok? This girl isn't my main focus, I just wanted her as a back up plan incase things don't work out. If they do, I'm willing to forget about this girl. But how can I hold on to her and keep her as a back up?
Thanks,
Joseph
Ryan
Master Don Juan
ok I'm going 2 read it......I already listened 2 the clips.
Right now, I'm kinda tied down b/c I'm supposed 2 be studying 4 my math exams.
As soon as I get the exams out of the way, I'll read the letters.
Y does he say patterns can be dangerous?
Vassago, how has this stuff helped u?
Thanx a lot man.
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Your Homeboy,
~R*Y*A*N~
"I have run out of ways to fail; now I can only succeed!!!"
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Yo Vassago,
ok I'm going 2 read it......I already listened 2 the clips.
Right now, I'm kinda tied down b/c I'm supposed 2 be studying 4 my math exams.
As soon as I get the exams out of the way, I'll read the letters.
Y does he say patterns can be dangerous?
Vassago, how has this stuff helped u?
Thanx a lot man.
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SoSuave.com
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.