"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Saw this fluff piece in the news today so I thought I would share. This is the kind of reaction a very small percentage of males can get. I've seen it in real life, and it has nothing to do with being confident or "alpha", it's completely based on looks. To be able to get this kind of response, immediately, upon first meeting, upon first sight; This is the type of reaction I've always wanted to get from females but have never had the looks to get that kind of immediate gut reaction.

Now this guy has great genetics obviously, but he also accentuates it with a stylish haircut, stylish dress, great dental care, a good tan, and being in shape. Presumably he has access to the studio wardrobe and professional makeup artists. It also helps that he can pull off the slightly unshaven look. When I try this I look like a hobo lol.

http://www.ew.com/article/2016/02/01/leslie-mann-dakota-johnson-hit-on-reporter
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Who Dares Win

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I guess those are the same women which calls us superficial cause we go after fitness chicks while ignoring fat ones, Im sure they got aroused from him cause he support the orfans and and attend charity events.

Anyway agree on the message, you can be as "confident" as you want, if you look like joe pesci you aint getting that reaction.
 

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I guess those are the same women which calls us superficial cause we go after fitness chicks while ignoring fat ones, Im sure they got aroused from him cause he support the orfans and and attend charity events.

Anyway agree on the message, you can be as "confident" as you want, if you look like joe pesci you aint getting that reaction.
Well if you are Joe Pesci...

 

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He acted a bit feminine in my opinion. But thats a good looking dude.

You gotta play the hand your dealt and may the best of what you have. This means having a stylish haircut and going to the gym and dressing well yourself.
 
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