Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Actor Heath Ledger DIES!!

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http://omg.yahoo.com/heath-ledger-found-dead-in-nyc/news/5898

NEW YORK - Heath Ledger was found dead Tuesday at a downtown Manhattan residence, and police said drugs may have been a factor. He was 28.

NYPD spokesman Paul Browne said Ledger had an appointment for a massage at the Manhattan apartment believed to be his home. The housekeeper who went to let him know the masseuse had arrived found him dead at 3:26 p.m.

A large crowd of paparazzi and gawkers began gathering Tuesday evening outside the building on an upscale block in SoHo, where several police officers guarded the door.

The Australian-born actor was nominated for an Oscar for "Brokeback Mountain," where he met Michelle Williams in 2005. The two had lived in Brooklyn and had a daughter, Matilda, until they split up last year.

He most recently appeared in "I'm Not There," in which he played one of the many incarnations of Bob Dylan -- as did Cate Blanchett, whose performance in that film earned an Oscar nomination Tuesday for best supporting actress.

Ledger was to appear as the Joker this year in "The Dark Knight," a sequel to 2005's "Batman Begins." He's had starring roles in "A Knight's Tale" and "The Patriot," and played the suicidal son of Billy Bob Thornton in "Monster's Ball."

Ledger grew up in Perth, and began doing amateur theater at age 10. At 16, he moved to Sydney to pursue an acting career, quickly landing TV movie roles and guest spots on Australian television.

After several independent films and a starring role in the short-lived Fox TV series "Roar," Ledger moved to Los Angeles and costarred in "10 Things I Hate About You," a teen comedy reworking of "The Taming of the Shrew."

Offers for other teen flicks came his way, but Ledger turned them down, preferring to remain idle than sign on for projects he didn't like.

"It wasn't a hard decision for me," Ledger told the Associated Press in 2001. "It was hard for everyone else around me to understand. Agents were like, 'You're crazy,' my parents were like, 'Come on, you have to eat.'"
Whoa! thats big bro...:(
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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damn.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJDamage said:
I heard he really got into the Joker character, that it messed him up.
Yeah, he said the character haunted him off the set. He was having serious troubles with sleeping and tried taking all sorts of sleep-aid drugs. I doubt it was intentional.
 

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I really like The Patriot. Heath Ledger was a great actor he will be missed.
 

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Master Bates said:
Yeah, he said the character haunted him off the set. He was having serious troubles with sleeping and tried taking all sorts of sleep-aid drugs. I doubt it was intentional.
Get the hell out of here.

You guys are just hating on a guy whose life you wished you had and now he is dead.
 

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Jesus, I thought this was some bullsh!t spam but if it's on TMZ.com it's gotta be true.

The guy was a fantastic actor. His scene in Monsters Ball when he shot himself in the chest has made a lifelong impression on me.

Another one bites the dust . . .

Sleep with angels brother.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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iqqi said:
I am so sad. SO SAD.

He seemed like a real soul.
lets half a pint of jerry garcia and chunky monkey ...
bring the tissues!!!
 

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KarmaSutra said:
Jesus, I thought this was some bullsh!t spam but if it's on TMZ.com it's gotta be true.

The guy was a fantastic actor. His scene in Monsters Ball when he shot himself in the chest has made a lifelong impression on me.

Another one bites the dust . . .

Sleep with angels brother.
all his flicks made a lasting impression on me, there was just something about him on the screen. and also, while at work, without knowing he died, i thought of him today .. so this just makes me feel like a weirdo.
it angers me that that drugs are killing everyone left and right these days.
rich people, poor people, good people , bad people, black people , white people, short people , tall people, men, women, children.
drugs are not prejudice , and are so much more addicting than what it seems they were even 10 years ago.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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penkitten said:
all his flicks made a lasting impression on me, there was just something about him on the screen. and also, while at work, without knowing he died, i thought of him today .. so this just makes me feel like a weirdo.
it angers me that that drugs are killing everyone left and right these days.
rich people, poor people, good people , bad people, black people , white people, short people , tall people, men, women, children.
drugs are not prejudice , and are so much more addicting than what it seems they were even 10 years ago.
Drugs are just one way to go.

He seemed intelligent enough to make the choice (to end his life).

I just never could have foreseen it.
 

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iqqi said:
Drugs are just one way to go.

He seemed intelligent enough to make the choice (to end his life).

I just never could have foreseen it.
he may not have meant it like that, to hurt himself and end his life.
he may have thought he was being careful, it happens.
but whatever it was, i am still on a warpath with drug use.....
 

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Guy did some pretty extreme stuff to get into character.

http://www.iesb.net/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=3691&Itemid=99
I really don't know. It's like chalk and cheese. My preparation process for this and my process for the Joker are completely different. I mean, for the Joker I locked myself away in a hotel room for six weeks. I just formulated a voice and a posture and found a real psychology behind the Joker. I really put a lot of work into it. And the experience also on a production scale, by the way, is obviously a completely different shoot. Batman is just such a machine. It's huge and I've never worked on anything that big. And the movie is going to be surprisingly good! It's far exceeded my expectations.
Its most likely an accidental overdose, been reports of him not getting much sleep because of the preoccupation over the Joker role.

NY Times

“Last week I probably slept an average of two hours a night,” he said. “I couldn’t stop thinking. My body was exhausted, and my mind was still going.” One night he took an Ambien, which failed to work. He took a second one and fell into a stupor, only to wake up an hour later, his mind still racing.
Anyways, I liked the last Bat movie and was looking forward this one.


EDIT: Nevermind it was pneumonia.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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