"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Actor Heath Ledger DIES!!

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http://omg.yahoo.com/heath-ledger-found-dead-in-nyc/news/5898

NEW YORK - Heath Ledger was found dead Tuesday at a downtown Manhattan residence, and police said drugs may have been a factor. He was 28.

NYPD spokesman Paul Browne said Ledger had an appointment for a massage at the Manhattan apartment believed to be his home. The housekeeper who went to let him know the masseuse had arrived found him dead at 3:26 p.m.

A large crowd of paparazzi and gawkers began gathering Tuesday evening outside the building on an upscale block in SoHo, where several police officers guarded the door.

The Australian-born actor was nominated for an Oscar for "Brokeback Mountain," where he met Michelle Williams in 2005. The two had lived in Brooklyn and had a daughter, Matilda, until they split up last year.

He most recently appeared in "I'm Not There," in which he played one of the many incarnations of Bob Dylan -- as did Cate Blanchett, whose performance in that film earned an Oscar nomination Tuesday for best supporting actress.

Ledger was to appear as the Joker this year in "The Dark Knight," a sequel to 2005's "Batman Begins." He's had starring roles in "A Knight's Tale" and "The Patriot," and played the suicidal son of Billy Bob Thornton in "Monster's Ball."

Ledger grew up in Perth, and began doing amateur theater at age 10. At 16, he moved to Sydney to pursue an acting career, quickly landing TV movie roles and guest spots on Australian television.

After several independent films and a starring role in the short-lived Fox TV series "Roar," Ledger moved to Los Angeles and costarred in "10 Things I Hate About You," a teen comedy reworking of "The Taming of the Shrew."

Offers for other teen flicks came his way, but Ledger turned them down, preferring to remain idle than sign on for projects he didn't like.

"It wasn't a hard decision for me," Ledger told the Associated Press in 2001. "It was hard for everyone else around me to understand. Agents were like, 'You're crazy,' my parents were like, 'Come on, you have to eat.'"
Whoa! thats big bro...:(
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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damn.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJDamage said:
I heard he really got into the Joker character, that it messed him up.
Yeah, he said the character haunted him off the set. He was having serious troubles with sleeping and tried taking all sorts of sleep-aid drugs. I doubt it was intentional.
 

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I really like The Patriot. Heath Ledger was a great actor he will be missed.
 

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Master Bates said:
Yeah, he said the character haunted him off the set. He was having serious troubles with sleeping and tried taking all sorts of sleep-aid drugs. I doubt it was intentional.
Get the hell out of here.

You guys are just hating on a guy whose life you wished you had and now he is dead.
 

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Jesus, I thought this was some bullsh!t spam but if it's on TMZ.com it's gotta be true.

The guy was a fantastic actor. His scene in Monsters Ball when he shot himself in the chest has made a lifelong impression on me.

Another one bites the dust . . .

Sleep with angels brother.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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iqqi said:
I am so sad. SO SAD.

He seemed like a real soul.
lets half a pint of jerry garcia and chunky monkey ...
bring the tissues!!!
 

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KarmaSutra said:
Jesus, I thought this was some bullsh!t spam but if it's on TMZ.com it's gotta be true.

The guy was a fantastic actor. His scene in Monsters Ball when he shot himself in the chest has made a lifelong impression on me.

Another one bites the dust . . .

Sleep with angels brother.
all his flicks made a lasting impression on me, there was just something about him on the screen. and also, while at work, without knowing he died, i thought of him today .. so this just makes me feel like a weirdo.
it angers me that that drugs are killing everyone left and right these days.
rich people, poor people, good people , bad people, black people , white people, short people , tall people, men, women, children.
drugs are not prejudice , and are so much more addicting than what it seems they were even 10 years ago.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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penkitten said:
all his flicks made a lasting impression on me, there was just something about him on the screen. and also, while at work, without knowing he died, i thought of him today .. so this just makes me feel like a weirdo.
it angers me that that drugs are killing everyone left and right these days.
rich people, poor people, good people , bad people, black people , white people, short people , tall people, men, women, children.
drugs are not prejudice , and are so much more addicting than what it seems they were even 10 years ago.
Drugs are just one way to go.

He seemed intelligent enough to make the choice (to end his life).

I just never could have foreseen it.
 

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iqqi said:
Drugs are just one way to go.

He seemed intelligent enough to make the choice (to end his life).

I just never could have foreseen it.
he may not have meant it like that, to hurt himself and end his life.
he may have thought he was being careful, it happens.
but whatever it was, i am still on a warpath with drug use.....
 

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Guy did some pretty extreme stuff to get into character.

http://www.iesb.net/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=3691&Itemid=99
I really don't know. It's like chalk and cheese. My preparation process for this and my process for the Joker are completely different. I mean, for the Joker I locked myself away in a hotel room for six weeks. I just formulated a voice and a posture and found a real psychology behind the Joker. I really put a lot of work into it. And the experience also on a production scale, by the way, is obviously a completely different shoot. Batman is just such a machine. It's huge and I've never worked on anything that big. And the movie is going to be surprisingly good! It's far exceeded my expectations.
Its most likely an accidental overdose, been reports of him not getting much sleep because of the preoccupation over the Joker role.

NY Times

“Last week I probably slept an average of two hours a night,” he said. “I couldn’t stop thinking. My body was exhausted, and my mind was still going.” One night he took an Ambien, which failed to work. He took a second one and fell into a stupor, only to wake up an hour later, his mind still racing.
Anyways, I liked the last Bat movie and was looking forward this one.


EDIT: Nevermind it was pneumonia.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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