active disinterest + aloofness = friendzone?

[Faded Image]

I'm going to break it down simple for you.

Show some interest, then act disinterested. Show some more interest and then act disinterested again.

Either you or her will have to initiate interest otherwise you're going to remain at home base.

If you show interest and she doesn't respond, then you my friend are in the grasp of the whirlpool heading towards the friendzone.

 

[COD]

SHEESH active dis-interest sparks the interest, it makes her unsure of your intensions, she's thinking is this guy into me or what. REVEALING your feelings of lust and wanting to kick it too early on repels most women.

Once the mystery of subtle interest is exchanged, you have to TRANSITION or escalate. The best way to AVOID THE FRIEND ZONE is to act more than a friend..................how...........KINO.

Touching is non verbal but speaks volumes and again it HAS TO BE NATURAL AND SUBTLE.......not "hey baby you are fine as hell, let me grab that aZZ".

Playful teasing goes a long way, next stop for a bit then pick up right where U left off. Gp for the kiss, then pull away at the last moment. Toss in some ****y and funny.

See the key is to let the chemistry marinate for a bit........s-t-r-e-t-c-h that tension as far as it can go. If you go in with the thinking I am getting some tonight.....it may not happen BUT if you go in thinking whatever happens is cool with me and end up at tappin that azz they will adore it just as much as you. Cause its spontaneous, You didnt jump her like every other guy, she will want it more.

The specifics are numerous, but you have to have her in a sexual state, then isolate her, then escalate. I had numerous chics say WE ARE NOT HAVING SEX, YOUR NOT COMING OVER, I DONT NORMALLY DO THIS, I CANT BELIEVE I JUST MET YOU............THEN KABLAM at her house doing the nasty.

If you dont want to go slow find a hoe..........otherwise take your time. Now there is also other stuff I should mention, you gotta select the right target.

I dont care how great a PUA is certain types of women dont engage in sex the moment the are seduced by a stranger. SPEED SEDUCTION takes time and if you omit steps you wont see success.

Even online you gotta follow some sort of sequencial proceedure. Listen dude if it were easy there would be no need to post here. Its a skill set and once you reach master level (teaching others, 1000 lays under your belt, written book, etc) you rarely ever need tactics anymore. WHY-cause you had a slew of women and you get bored so you look for something of higher quality, long lasting, etc.

IF YOU JUST WANT TO GET LAID............I'd say online is the second fastest method..............prostitution being the first. Bar/clubs/parties have to deal with a lot of variables (co ck blockers, music, friends, competition, time, looks, etc) It can be done but again.........requires time. If they just fell over with their legs in the air it would not be a challenge and you would have that much fun.

SPECIFICS-theres just too many methods and no two women are alike, nor are the conditions exactly the same. Even online requires different emails, different profiles ,etc. THERES NO MAGIC PILL FOR SEX.....well aside from Viagra.

You gotta do your homework, practice and learn from mistakes and GET THIS...........ADOPT WHAT YOU READ ON HERE.........and try stuff out.

ONE NITE STANDS ARE A SET OF SKILLS, know your target, sequencial seduction, kino, etc, etc.

master every level and you will have more women, more sex that you can ever truly handle. When you truly get this stuff, you will have female doctors, chics buying you drinks, gifts, and even cars, you can be the MACK DADDY.............but U gotta pay you dues man. Sucks I know cause I am sure you know guys who got laid without all the BS............to that I say not consitantly, or not quality.

You can sit there and read this and say PFFT this is BS and have a pitty party or STEP UP AND MAKE A LIFE CHANGE, cause EVERYONE KNOWS ITS A LOT MORE THAN JUST GETTING LAID!!!!

If you agree to chage your attitude you will see SPILL-OVER EFFECT into other parts of your life, BETTER SEX, BETTER CAREER, PEOPLE BEGGING TO HANG WITH YOU, SUCCESS IN ALL ASPECTS, ETC.

YOU CHOOSE..........quick fix to get laid or a lifetime of playboy mansion adventure.

 

[WalkingStick]

There is a middle ground between being completely disinterested and falling all over her. To be honest, it's not hard to get a feel for it.

Of course if you hang around her without showing interest she's going to think of you as a friend. That's what friends do!. Disinterest only works if interest has been displayed first. I like the way it was put by Faded Image. Show her you're interested, but that you have other options and other things to do.

Think about it, a James Bond, George Clooney type would never say something like "I want to plow you." Its about subtlety and delivery while maintaining masculinity.

I STRONGLY recommend you read the Book of Pook if you haven't already. Even if you had, reread the part about displaying sexuality. There's even a section called "Sexuality vs. Desperation" or something like that. It adresses EXACTLY what you're talking about. It'll be in the dj bible.

 

[thechallenger]

1. stop beating off so that after three weeks your t-bomb turns you into a fregg'n animal. like what bona fide stated if you are really the king it will fall into you lap
2. take more control you are the man right?
3. quite possibly chicks intimidate you what you need is to go on a dry spell so damn long you crave a woman enuff to want to commit a crime that will land you in jail and on the six o clock news
than see how you take the lead.

 

[cloneofstenyhoyer]

THANKS to all who replied. I get what ya'll are saying and I think it will help me out. I just don't think I read IOIs very well - and I don't know when to eject. I feel like I'm gonna be with a given girl and I'm just gonna keep escalating and/or projecting my sexual state - and she will just be there all confused. How long do I wait before I NEXT a hypothetical girl?

The other thing is - I have had so many conflicting signals from women. Does anyone know how to handle this? I've gotten much kino and eye contact from girls but when I attempted to escalate, I got shot down.